Saturday, 27 October 2018

Wednesday October 24 2018 – Friday October 26 2018


Wednesday, October 24, 2018

12:00 Our elder daughter Alison, together with Ed and their 3 children, arrive from Haslemere, Surrey. It's so nice to see them again. I love all of our 3 grandchildren, Josie (12), Rosalind (10) and Isaac (8), and I really think they love Lois and me.

I also feel that I have a special bond with Josie, the eldest, because I feel she's the most socially awkward of the 3 children. It was the day that Lois and I retired in 2006 that Alison called us and told us she was a few months pregnant with Josie, one of the truly unforgettable moments in our lives.

14:00 Lois, Alison, Ed and the kids go to town to see the new Brewery shopping mall and the new John Lewis department store, which neither Lois nor I have seen yet. In the meantime I go to bed and take a huge afternoon nap.

18:00 We are 7 for dinner. Lois and me are just 2 old crows living alone in a large and (relatively) unpopulated house, so it's a bit of a shock to me suddenly to hear so much chatter in the house, and in particular Rosalind, who is such a chatterbox, and who loves to sit next to me and talk about everything and nothing. She is so charming!

Ed is currently unemployed. He is a qualified lawyer, and over the past 10 years or so he has worked in legal departments of various companies.

For the first time Ed is a little more candid with us about his job prospects. He worked for almost 6 years in Copenhagen, but his company released him at the end of March 2018, and the family moved back to England in the summer.

However, it did not seem that he was in a hurry to suddenly throw himself into a new job and Lois and I assumed that his previous company must have given him a very generous amount of compensation when he was made redundant, maybe even a year's salary, or the like.

He has a career counsellor from his previous company and he often speaks with various head-hunters, and spends a lot of time on "networking" as he calls it. And he has never given the impression that he was about to start panicking. The family does not seem to be in short of a few bob, and Alison recently bought her own car, in addition to the family's existing car.

But now it seems that after 7 months his unemployed status has begun to weigh on him a little and he is very keen now to get a new job before Christmas.

Recently, he failed to get a job in Manchester, but he was among the final 3 candidates. There are currently 2 possible opportunities in prospect, one in Kent and another again in Manchester. He has arranged 2 phone calls for Friday, and he travels to London on Monday for a "conversation" about the job in Kent.

22:00 We go to bed - zzzzzzz !!!!

Thursday, October 25, 2018

Lois and I have invited Sharon, Lois' 49-year-old niece from Oxford, for lunch, along with her 2 youngest children, Lily-Rose (12) and "Little" Lois (8).

Lois and Alison work out a new table arrangement,
so all 9 of us can sit together for lunch

After lunch, everyone except me goes to Pittville Park. Meanwhile I go to bed and take another giant afternoon nap. They come home at 4pm and we relax with a cup of tea and a piece of cake.


(left to right), Lily-Rose (half-hidden), "Little" Lois, "Big" Lois,
Rosalind, Josie, Isaac and Alison

 (left to right) Sharon, Lily Rose (half-hidden), "Little" Lois,
"Big" Lois, and Rosalind

It has been a long time since I have heard so much laughter in this house, to put it mildly (which is nice)!

Sharon and her 2 children go off at 5pm, and, after Alison and Ed's children have gone to bed, we spend the last hour of the day watching television, the latest (2nd) episode of the new Big Bang Theory season - a fun episode , where Sheldon and Amy return to the apartment after their honeymoon in New York.





Sheldon and Amy have bought identical souvenir gifts for their friends:
"I love New York" t-shirts, ordered from Amazon Prime whilst on their plane ride home

22:00 We go to bed - zzzzzzz !!!!!

Friday, October 26, 2018

06:00 I get up early and watch television. Early morning is my main chance to watch television in peace and quiet. An interesting documentary film is on, 3rd part of 5, all about the "Human Universe." The host of the program is the charming physicist, Brian Cox.


This third episode addresses the question. "Are we alone?". Brian points out that water is necessary for life to exist and there are signs that there was once water on the planets Mars and Venus. Mercury is too cold so only ice can exist there and the other planets are too hot, so water would evaporate there.

It turns out, however, that there are millions of planets in the universe on which water could exist. And it is also true that life appeared on Earth not that long after the Earth began to exist as a planet (from a cosmological point of view), i.e. it wasn't that difficult - which implies the existence of many planets with possible life forms, even though Brian reminds us that intelligent civilisations are maybe all short-lived.

It is perhaps surprising, but Brian himself leans to the view that we are actually alone as regards intelligent life-forms. A sufficiently advanced civilisation could in theory, sooner or later, have constructed machines that could colonise the entire universe and extract from each planet the resources they needed to reproduce themselves there, as suggested by mathematician John von Neumann in the 1940s. But we do not see any such machines for some reason.

Perhaps the chance event on the Earth, whereby a bacterium penetrated an archaean, thus making more complex organisms possible, in fact, was a very very very rare event. Every human being and every animal living on earth today comes from that first penetration - it never happened a second time, as far as we know. How fascinating.


why are there no von Neumann-style machines to be seen?

10:00 This morning all 7 of us go in 2 cars to the Gallagher shopping mall. Isaac (8) and I (72) make a bee-line for the Patisserie-Valerie café in the Next clothing store, while the others go shopping in both Next itself and in Sainsbury's supermarket. There are a lot of winter clothes on offer at the moment, and Lois also wants to buy clothes for Lily and Jessie, our 5 year old twin grandchildren in Perth, Australia.

As always, Josie (12) has the hardest time finding suitable clothes. She does not want to look like a boy, but at the same time she hates clothes that are too girly-girly. Finally she finds a black hoodie that has no fur lining, which she likes a lot.

Apparently, Sainsbury's no longer has separate boys' departments and girls' departments because they regard it as sexist - good grief, what a crazy world we live in !!!!

After an hour, all 5 of them return to the Patisserie-Valerie café and meet up with Isaac and me.

(left to right) Josie (in her new hoodie), Rosalind and Isaac.
Alison and Lois are in the background at the counter

We all have a snack in the cafe and afterwards we drive over to the Wyevale Garden Centre to have lunch.

It is much more quiet and peaceful in the garden centre than usual because the winter season's first racing festival starts today and most local residents are staying away from the Wyevale Centre because it is so close to the racecourse (less than half a mile).

Alison and Ed, however, are feeling brave today and seem to be keen to defy the traffic jams - and I'm not entirely sure why. My god, what madness!


We have lunch in a (comparatively) people-free
Wyevale garden centre. But outside there are unfortunately massive
traffic jams, due to the winter season's first racing festival.
Good grief - what madness !!!!

16:00 Alison, Ed and the three children have to leave for home. We are going to miss them tonight when we are alone again, that's for sure.

They are currently not entirely sure where they will spend Christmas. Ed's father, Stephen, has to undergo a major operation in January. Ed has not told us what kind of surgery it is, but it is obviously something serious. The result is that it is Ed's parents who need to take priority rather than us. Poor Stephen. Ed says that Stephen has already become very stressed, which is understandable.

We have a little listen to the radio, an interesting program called "The Last Word". Lois and I have got in the habit of hearing this program every week because we want to find out if anyone over the past 1-2 weeks has died or not (I have noticed that most weeks exactly 5 deaths occur ).


The translator Anthea Bell, one of my heroes, has unfortunately died at the age of 82. She specialised in French and German, but she once learned Danish over Christmas and New Year, just so she could translate some of Hans Christian Andersen's fairy-tales - what a woman!

Anthea in her younger years

Although she translated many serious works, such as some of Franz Kafka's novels, she is most famous for translating stories from the humorous French comic strip, Asterix the Gaul, and his epic struggles against the Roman army, etc.

one of Anthea's translations of Asterix

Asterix's original French text contained a lot of typical French verbal humor that would not mean anything to English-speaking readers, but Andrea had knack of finding similar Anglo-Saxon cultural references, and many believed that her versions were actually more amusing than the original, which is a bit of a triumph, I must say.

A sword fight between Asterix and a Roman soldier was in the French original packed with references to Cyrano de Bergerac, who used to compose medieval French poems aloud while he was fighting a duel. English-speaking readers would not recognise these references, so Anthea decided to base the duel on Hamlet's duel with Laertes and she included a lot of quotations from Shakespeare.

There was a dog in the French original, called Idée-fix, which Anthea renamed "Dogmatix". And the village's oldest inhabitant, who in French was called Agecanonix, became "Geriatrix" in the English version. The village's only druid, Panoramix, became "Get-a-fix".

"We all live in a yellow quinquereme" - that was another of her brilliant ideas.

a typical Roman quinquereme

She also had to ensure that her English translations fitted the size of the original French speech bubbles - she often had to count the number of letters she needed. Poor Anthea !!

18:00 We have dinner and spend the rest of the evening watching television. An old episode of Top of the Pops is on, from July 1986, the week of Prince Andrew's wedding to Sarah Ferguson.


 Andrew and Fergie make an unofficial visit to the BBC studio

What happy days when we never imagined that royal marriages could end badly!

20:00 We continue to watch some television. An interesting documentary film is on, (3rd part of 3), all about the history of dance in Britain: "Dancing cheek to cheek: an intimate story of dance". The program's hosts are the charming Lucy Worsley and Len Goodman.


Unfortunately, I doze through most of the program - damn! But occasionally I wake up for a few minutes and pick up a few small insights.

It seems that we Brits got all our dances (except our home grown folk dances) from the European continent until the end of the 19th century (the waltz, the polka, etc.). But starting from the 20th century, most of our new dances came from the new world, mostly the US, but also Latin America. There was only one home grown dance: the Lambeth Walk from 1938 - yikes, that's a bit sad!

In 1914, the pope banned the tango in Vatican City for some reason. 

Good grief, what a crazy world we live in !!!




22:00 We go to bed - zzzzzzzz !!!!!

Danish translation

Onsdag den 24. oktober 2018

12:00 Vores ældste datter Alison, sammen med Ed og deres 3 børn, ankommer fra Haslemere, Surrey. Det er så rart at kunne se dem igen. Jeg elsker alle vores 3 børnebørn, Josie (12), Rosalind (10) og Isaac (8), og jeg tror egenligt, at de elsker Lois og mig.

Jeg føler også, at jeg har et særligt bånd med Josie, den ældste, fordi jeg føler, hun er den mest socialt akavet af de 3 børn. Det var dagen, Lois og jeg i 2006 gik på pension, at Alison ringede til os og fortalte os hun var et par måneder gravid med Josie: et af de rigtigt uforglemmelige øjeblikke i vores liv.

14:00 Lois, Alison, Ed og børnene tager i byen for at se det nye Brewery indkøbscenter og det nye John Lewis stormagasinet, som hverken Lois eller jeg har set endnu. I mellemtiden går jeg i seng og tager en gigantisk eftermiddagslur.

18:00 Vi spiser alle 7 aftensmad. Lois og mig er bare 2 gamle krager, der bor alene i et stort og (forholdsvis) mennesketomt hus, så er det lidt af et chok for mit vedkommende, pludselig at høre så meget snik-snak i huset, og i sær Rosalind, der er sådan et sludrechatol, og elsker at sidde ved siden af mig og tale om alt og ingenting. Hun er så charmerende!

Ed er for tiden arbejdsløs. Han er en kvalificeret advokat, og i de seneste ca 10 år har arbejdet i forskellige firmaers juridiske afdelinger.

For første gang er Ed lidt mere åbenhjertig om sine jobudsigter. Han arbejdede i næsten 6 år i København, men hans firma fritstillede ham ved slutningen af marts 2018, og familien flyttede tilbage til England om sommeren.

Det syntes imidlertid ikke, at han havde lyst pludselig til at kaste sig ud i et nyt job, og Lois og jeg formodede, at sit forrige firma må have givet ham en meget generøs erstatningsbeløb, da han blev afskediget, måske endda et års løn, eller lignende.

Han har en karriererådgiver fra sit forrige firma, og taler ofte med forskellige hovedjægere, og bruger en masse tid på at ”netværke”, som han kalder det. Og han har aldrig givet det indtryk  af, at han overhovedet var ved at gå i panik. Familien synes ikke at være i bekneb for skillinger, og Alison købte for nylig sin egen bil, udover familiens eksisterende bil.

Men nu lader det til, at hans arbejdsløse tilstand efter 7 måneder er begyndt at tynge ham lidt ned, og han er meget frisk på at få et nyt job før juletiden.

For nylig mislykkedes det ham at få et job i Manchester, men han var blandt de sidste 3 kandidater. Der er for tiden 2 mulige lejligheder i vente, den ene i grevskabet Kent og den anden igen i Manchester. Han har arrangeret 2 telefonopkald til fredag, og han rejser til London på mandag til en ”samtale” om jobbet i Kent.

22:00 Vi går i seng – zzzzzzz!!!!

Torsdag den 25. oktober 2018

Lois og jeg har inviteret Sharon, Lois’ 49-årige niece fra Oxford, til frokost, sammen med hendes 2 yngste børn, Lily-Rose (12) og ”lille” Lois (8).

Lois og Alison finder på et nyt bordarrangement,
så vi alle 9 kan sidde sammen til frokost

Efter frokost tager alle bortset fra mig til Pittville-parken. I mellemtiden går jeg i seng og tager mig endnu en gigantisk eftermiddagslur. De kommer hjem kl 16 og vi slapper af med en kop te og et stykke kage.


(venstre til højre), Lily-Rose (halvt gemt), ”lille” Lois, ”store” Lois,
Rosalind, Josie, Isaac og Alison

 (venstre til højre) Sharon, Lily Rose (halvt gemt), ”lille” Lois,
”store” Lois, og Rosalind

Det er gået lang tid, siden der har været så meget latter i dette hus, for at sige mildt (hvilket er rart) !

Sharon og hendes 2 børn tog kl 17 af sked, og efter Alison og Eds børn går i seng, bruger vi dagens seneste time på at se lidt fjernsyn, det seneste (2.) afsnit af den nye Big Bang Theory sæson – et morsomt afsnit, hvor Sheldon og Amy kommer tilbage til lejligheden efter deres hvedebrødsdage i New York.





Sheldon og Amy har købt identiske souveniggaver til deres venner:
”Jeg elsker New York” t-shirts, bestilt fra Amazon Prime

22:00 Vi går i seng – zzzzzzz!!!!!

Fredag den 26. oktober 2018

06:00 Jeg står tidligt op og ser lidt fjernsyn. Det er min hovedsagelige chance for at se fjernsyn i fred og ro. De viser en interessant dokumentarfilm, 3.del af 5, der handler om det ”Menneskelige univers”. Programmets vært er den charmerende fysiker, Brian Cox.


Dette 3. afsnit takler spørgsmålet. ”Er vi alene?”. Brian påpeger, at vand er nødvendigt for livet kan eksistere, og at der er tegn på, at der engang var vand på planeterne Mars og Venus. Mercury er for kold, så kun is kan eksistere, og de andre planeter er for varme, så vand ville fordampe.

Det viser sig, at der er miliarder af planeter i universet, hvor vand kunne eksistere. Og der er også sandt, at livet dukkede op på jorden ikke ret længe (fra det kosmologiske synspunkt) efter at jorden begyndte at eksistere som en planet, hvilket medfører eksistensen af mange planeter med mulige livsformer, selvom Brian minder os om, at intelligente civilisationer måske er kortvarige.

Det er overraskende, men Brian selv hælder til meningen, at vi faktisk er alene, hvad angår intelligente livsformer.  En tilstrækkeligt avanceret civilisation kunne i teorien før eller senere have konstrueret maskiner, der kunne kolonisere hele universet, og udvinde på hver planet ressourcerne, de havde brug for til at kunne reproducere sig selv, som matematikeren John von Neumann foreslog i 1940'erne. Men sådanne maskiner  ser vi ikke af en eller anden grund.

Måske var den event på jorden, hvorved en bakterie trængte ind i en arkebakterie og gjorde mere komplekser organismer  mulige, faktisk var en meget meget meget sjælden event. Hvert menneske og hvert dyr i live på jorden i dag stammer fra den der første penetration – det skete aldrig en 2. gang, så vidt vi ved. Hvor fascinerende.


hvorfor er der ikke nogle von Neumann-stil maskiner?

10:00 I formiddag tager vi alle 7 med 2 biler til Gallagher-indkøbscentret. Isaac (8) og jeg (72) styrer lige imod Patisserie-Valerie caféen i Next-tøjstormagasinet, mens de andre går tøjindkøb både i selve Next og i Sainsburys-supermarkedet. Der er en masse vintertøj på tilbud for tiden, og Lois vil også købe tøj til Lily og Jessie, vores 5-årige tvillingebørnebørn i Perth, Australien.

Som altid har Josie (12)  mest svært ved at finde egnede tøj. Hun har ikke lyst til at se ud som en dreng, men samtidig hader hun tøj, som er alt for girly-girly. Til sidste finder hun en sort hoodie, der ikke har noget pelsbeklædt hætte.

Tilsyneladende har Sainsburys ikke længere adskilte drengeafdelinger og pigeafdelinger, fordi de betragter det som sexist – du godeste, sikke en skør verden vi lever i !!!!

Efter en time kommer de alle 5 tilbage ind i Patisserie-Valerie-caféen og mødes med Isaac og mig.

(venstre til højre) Josie i sin ny hoodie, Rosalind og Isaac.
Alison og Lois står i baggrunden på disken

Vi spiser alle et snack i kaféen og bagefter kører vi over til Wyevale havecentret for at spise frokost.

Der er meget mere stille og rolig i havecentrets café, end normalt, fordi vintersæsonens første væddeløbsfestival starter i dag, og de fleste lokale indbyggere holder sig væk fra Wyevale-centret, fordi det er så tæt på væddeløbsbanen (mindre end en halv mile).

Alison og Ed føler sig imidlertid modige i dag og synes at være friske på at trodse trafikpropperne – og jeg er ikke helt sikker på hvorfor. Du godeste, sikke et vanvid!


vi spiser frokost i et (forholdsvis) mennesketomt
Wyevale havecenter. Men udenfor er der desværre massive
trafikpropper, på grund af vintersæsonens 1. væddeløbsfestival.
Du godeste – sikke et vanvid!!!!

16:00 Alison, Ed og de tre børn skal til af sted. Vi kommer til at savne dem i aften, når vi er alene igen, ingen tvivl om det.

De er for øjeblikket ikke helt sikre på, hvor de skal tilbringe juletid. Eds far, Stephen,  skal gennemgå en større operation i januar. Ed har ikke fortalt os hvad slags operation, men det er åbenbart noget alvorligt. Resultatet er derfor, at det er Eds forældre, der skal tage prioriteten, snarere end os. Stakkels Stephen. Ed siger, at Stephen allerede er blevet meget stresset, hvilket er forståeligt.

Vi lytter lidt til radio, et interessant program med titlen ”Det sidste ord”. Lois og jeg er kommet i vane med at høre dette program hver uge, fordi vi ønsker at finde ud af, om nogen i de seneste 1-2 uger døde eller ej (jeg har bemærket, at der i de fleste uger sker nøjagtig 5 dødsfald).


Oversætteren Anthea Bell, en af mine helte, er desværre død på 82 år. Hun specialiserede sig i fransk og tysk, men hun lærte engang dansk julen og nytåret over, så hun kunne oversætte nogle af HK Andersens fortællinger – sikke en kvinde!


Selvom hun oversatte mange alvorlige værker, som for eksempel nogle af Franz Kafkas romaner, er hun mest kendt for at oversatte fortællinger af den franske tegneserie, Asterix og de gæve gallere, og hans kampe mod den romerske hær osv.

en af Antheas oversættelser af Asterix

Asterix’ oprindlige franske tekst indeholdt en masse typiske fransk verbal humor, der ikke ville betyde noget for engelsktalende læsere, men Andrea havde en vis evne til at finde tilsvarende angel-sasiske referencer, og mange mente, at hendes versioner faktisk var morsommere, end den oprindelige, hvilket er lidt af en triumf, det må jeg nok sige.

En sværdkamp mellem Asterix og en romersk soldat var i den franske oprindlige propfyldt med referencer til Cyrano de Bergerac, der komponerede et midalderligt fransk digt mens han var i gang med at kæmpe en duel. Engelsktalende læsere ville ikke genkende disse referencer, så derfor besluttede Anthea at basere duellen på Hamlets duel med Laertes og hun inkluderede en masse citationer fra Shakespeare.

Der var en hund i den franske oprindlige, der hed Idée-fix, som Anthea gennavnte ”Dogmatix”. Og landsbyens ældste indbygger, der på fransk hed Agecanonix, blev ”Geriatrix” på engelsk. Landsbyens eneste druide, Panoramix, blev til ”Get-a-fix”.

”We all live in a yellow quinquereme” – det var endnu et af hendes brilliante idéer.

et typisk romersk femradåret skib

Hun måtte også sikre, at hendes engelske oversættelser passede til størrelsenaf de oprindelige franske talebobler – det var ofte nødt til at tælle antallet af bogstaver i dem. Stakkels Anthea!!

18:00 Vi spiser aftensmad og bruger resten af aftenen på at se lidt fjernsyn. De viser et gamle afsnit af Top of the Pops fra jui 1986, måneden af Prins Andrews bryllup med Sarah Ferguson.



Andrew og Fergie aflægger et uofficielt besøg til BBC-studiet

Lykkelige dage, da vi ikke mistænkte, at royale ægteskaber kunne ende galt!

20:00 Vi fortsætter med at se lidt fjernsyn. De viser en interessant dokumentarfilm (3. del af 3), der handler om historien af dans i Storbritannien: ”At danse kind mod kind: en intim historie af dans”. Programmets værter er de charmerende Lucy Worsley og Len Goodman.


Desværre døser jeg igennem det meste af programmet – pokkers! Men af og til vågner jeg i nogle minutter og henter jeg et par små indsigter.

Det lader til, at vi briter fik alle vores danse (bortset fra vores hjemmdyrkede folkdanse) fra det europæiske kontinent op til slutningen af det 19. århundrede  (valsen, polkaen osv). Men startende fra det 20. århundrede kom hovedparten af vores nye danse fra det nye verden, for det meste USA, men også latinamerika. Der var kun en hjemmedyrket dans : Lambeth Walk fra 1938 – yikes!

I 1914 forbød paven tangoen i Vatikanstaten af en eller anden grund. Du godeste, sikke en skør verden vi lever i !!!




22:00 Vi går i seng – zzzzzzzz!!!!!


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