Monday, 28 January 2019

Sunday, January 27 2019


08:30 Lois and I take a shower and after breakfast we talk a little on whatsapp with our younger daughter, Sarah, and her 5-year-old twins, Lily and Jessie, who moved to Perth, Australia 3 years ago.

In Australia the school year starts in February - towards the end of their summer. The girls will be starting school for the first time next week, either on Monday or on Tuesday - Sarah is not quite sure. We ask if she and Francis have bought the children's school uniforms yet, but the answer is "not yet". They intended to buy them this weekend, but they suddenly remembered that it’s the Australia Day weekend and the shops are all closed.

This is typical of Sarah and Francis. They are not very good at planning and they tend to postpone everything to the last moment: they are the extreme opposite of Lois and me.

flashback to April 2018 - me (left) at a beach cafe in the Margaret River region,
Western Australia, along with Francis, Sarah, and the twins

Last night they took the twins to the coast to see the Australia Day fireworks show. Tomorrow (Monday) is a holiday, so we hope that we will be able to talk to Sarah again.

Both Sarah and Francis have recently got into the habit of browsing through the job ads. Sarah, a qualified chartered accountant, would like a less stressful job, though she has noticed that these less stressful jobs come with lower pay, which seems a little unfair ha ha!

Francis has spent the last 5 years looking after the twins. When they start school next week, he will have the chance to get some sort of job, which will help support the family financially, there is no doubt about that. Lois and I worry a little about his tendency to be too inflexible and too fussy when it comes to picking and choosing between jobs.

10:30 Claire calls us. She knows I'm about to drive Lois over to Tewkesbury this morning so Lois can take part in her sect’s 2 services. Claire asks us to pick her up “on the way” as we did last Sunday. She is not a member of the sect, but she still likes to attend the services, it seems.

I've already told Lois that I'm not willing to pick up Claire again. It means a massive detour, because Claire lives in Quedgeley on the other side of Gloucester. And there's a much better solution to the problem - in the shape of Gill, a member of the sect, who doesn't live that far from Claire's house. It would be much simpler for Gill to pick up Claire.

Gill - a recent photo

But unfortunately Claire would much rather be picked up by us than by Gill - Gill is a bit of a demon driver and her car's rear seat is always packed with her piano tuning equipment. Also, Gill is outspoken, and does not hesitate to tell Claire if she thinks she is doing or saying  something stupid. Whereas unlike Gill, Lois and I are always very polite and friendly.

Sorry, Claire, I would like to help you, but you live too far away !!! Try calling Gill again !!!!!

My goodness, what a crazy world we live in !!!!

10:45 Lois puts the phone down. I ask Lois why Claire doesn't order a taxi, but she says Claire is on unemployment benefit - she has some emotional issues and can't hold down a job. Also, Claire doesn't like taxis: she says she has had some unpleasant experiences with taxi drivers.

I tell Lois that I saw an interesting news item about a taxi driver the other day - the source was Onion News, the influential US news site.


What an amazing story - a humble taxi driver getting a mention three times within 1 day in the Guinness book of records. No wonder Claire wants to stay away from them all !!!!

11:00 Lois and I drive over to Tewkesbury and I drop her off in front of the town library where Lois's sect holds its services every Sunday.

12:00 I come home and have lunch. I have a little alone time and set about writing the first 4 paragraphs of an email to Tünde, my Hungarian pen-pal. My Hungarian has become a little rusty, I have to admit. But it is fun to try to write something that is at least a little bit amusing if I possibly can.

13:30 I go to bed and take a short afternoon nap. I get up at 2:30 pm and drive over to Tewkesbury again. I pick Lois up in the nearby parking lot and we drive home. We relax with a cup of tea and a biscuit on the sofa.

18:00 We have dinner and spend the rest of the evening watching a bit of television. We are both tired for some reason, and we doze off a little, every now and then during the evening – my god, we are getting old, no doubt about that!

An interesting documentary is on, all about "Hector", which has been called Canada's Mayflower: a small ship that was considered too feeble to cross the Atlantic Ocean, but which somehow, in 1773,  transported approx. 200 Scots from Scotland to Nova Scotia, where a Philadelphia-based Scottish businessman, John Witherspoon, had bought 200,000 acres, which he wanted the Scots to cultivate.


Each of the Scottish immigrants paid Witherspoon 5 pence per acre for a plot of land, and £3 each for a one-way ticket on the ship, so they were not in any way "the poorest of the poor". However, many of the passengers were illiterate and could not write their names on the passenger list, so they just wrote the first letter of the name: unfortunately this was mostly just "M" - the same shortened form for all of them - Mackenzie, McLeod, Macdonald etc.  My god, what madness !!!

And there were no embarrassing interactions with the native (Mi'kmaw) tribes when the immigrants landed on the coast of Nova Scotia. The Scots had brought their mandatory bagpipes with them, and began to play them to celebrate their safe arrival in the New World - and the natives simply ran away into the forests.

My goodness, what a crazy world we live in !!!!!

22:00 We go to bed - zzzzzzzzzzz !!!!!


Danish translation

08:30 Lois og jeg tager et brusebad og efter morgenmad taler vi lidt på whatsapp med vores yngste datter, Sarah, og hendes 5-årige tvillinger, Lily og Jessie. Pigerne starter i skole næste uge, enten på mandag eller på tirsdag – det er Sarah ikke helt sikker på. Vi spørger om hun og Francis har købt børnenes skoleuniformer endnu, men svaret er ”ikke endnu”. De havde til hensigt at købe dem denne weekend, men de mindedes pludselig, at det er Australia Day-weekenden, og butikkerne er alle lukkede.

Dette er typisk af Sarah og Francis. De er ikke særligt gode til at planlægge og de har tendens til at udskyde alting til det sidste øjeblik: de er det ekstrem modsatte af Lois og mig.

tilbageblik til april 2018 - mig på en strandcafé i Margaret River-regionen,
Western Australia, sammen med Francis, Sarah, og tvillingerne

I går aftes tog de tvillinger med til kysten for at se Australia Day-fyrværkerishowet. I morgen (mandag) er en hellidag, så håber vi på, at vi vil kunne tale med Sarah igen.

Både Sarah og Francis er for nylig kommet i vane med at blade igennem jobannoncerne. Sarah, en uddannet revisor, vil gerne have en mindre stressende job, selvom hun har bemærket, at disse mindre stressende jobs kommer med lavere løn, hvilket virker lidt unfair ha ha!

Francis har brugt de sidste 5 år på at passe på tvillingerne. Når de starter i skole næste uge, vil han have chancen for at få et eller andet job, hvilket vil hjælpe med at støtte familien financielt, det er der ikke nogen tvivl om. Lois og jeg bekymrer lidt over, at han har tendens til at være for ufleksibel og kræsen, når det kommer til at vælge og vrage mellem jobs.

10:30 Claire ringer til os. Hun ved, jeg er ved at køre Lois over til Tewkesbury i formiddag , så Lois kan deltage i sin sekts 2 gudstjenester. Claire beder os at afhente hende på vej, som vi gjorde sidste søndag. Hun er ikke et medlem af sekten, men hun kan godt lide at deltage i gudstjenesterne, lader det til.

Jeg har allerede fortalt Lois, at jeg ikke er villig til at afhente Claire igen. Det betyder en meget lang omvej, fordi Claire bor i Quedgeley i den anden side af byen Gloucester. Og der er en meget bedre løsning til problemet – Gill, et medlem af sekten, bor ikke ret langt væk fra Claires hus. Det ville være meget simplere for Gill at afhente Claire.

Gill – et nyligt foto

Claire ville meget hellere blive afhentet af os, end af Gill – Gill er lidt af en skræmmende chauffør, og hendes bils bagsæde er altid propfyldt med hendes klaverstemningsudstyr. Også Gill er frimodig, og tøver ikke med at fortælle Claire hun gør eller siger noget dumt, hvis det der er hendes mening. Mens i modsætning til Gill er Lois og jeg altid meget høflige og venlige.

Undskyld Claire, jeg ville gerne hjælpe dig, men du bor for langt væk!!! Prøv at ringe Gill igen !!!!!

Du godeste, sikke en skør verden vi lever i !!!!

10:45 Lois lægger telefonen på. Jeg spørger Lois hvorfor Claire ikke bestiller en taxa, men hun siger Claire er på dagpenge – hun har visse følelsesmæssige issues, og kan ikke holde på et job. Også kan Claire ikke lide taxaer: hun siger at hun har haft nogle ubehagelige oplevelser med taxachauffører.  

Jeg fortæller Lois, at jeg forleden så et interessant nyhed om en taxachauffør – kilden var Onion News, den indflydelsesrige amerikanske nyhedswebsted.


Hvor er det dog en forbløffende historie – en ydmyg taxachauffør bliver nævnt tre gange indenfor en dag i Guinness- rekordbogen. Det kan ikke undre, at Claire har lyst til at holde sig væk fra dem alle !!!!

11:00 Lois og jeg  kører over til Tewkesbury og jeg sætter hende af foran byens bibliotek, hvor Lois’ sekt hver søndag holder sine gudstjenester.

12:00 Jeg kommer hjem og spiser frokost. Jeg har lidt alenetid og går i gang med at skrive de første 4 afsnit af en email til Tünde, min ungarske penneveninde. Mit ungarsk er blevet lidt rustent – det må jeg indrømme. Men det er sjovt at forsøge at skrive noget, der er mindst en lille smule morsomt, hvis jeg kan.

13:30 Jeg går i  seng for at tage en gigantisk eftermiddagslur. Jeg står op kl 14:30 og kører over til Tewkesbury igen. Jeg afhenter Lois i den nærliggende parkeringsplads og vi kører hjem. Vi slapper af med en kop te og en kiks i sofaen.

18:00 Vi spiser aftensmad og bruger resten af aftenen på at se lidt fjernsyn. Vi er begge trætte, af en eller anden grund, og vi blunder lidt af og til i løbet af aftenen – du godeste, vi bliver gamle, ingen tvivl om det!

De viser en interessant dokumentarfilm, der handler om ”Hector”, der er blevet kaldet Canadas Mayflower:  et lille skib, der var betragtet som for svagt til at krydse Atlanter-avet, som på en eller anden måde transporterede ca. 200 skotter fra Skotland til Nova Scotia, hvor en Philadelphia-baseret skotsk forretningsmand, John Witherspoon, havde købte 200.000 hektar, som han ville have skotterne til at dyrke.


Enhver af de skotske indvandrende betalte Witherspoon 5 pence pr hektar, og 3£ for en enkeltbillet til skibet , så de var overhovedet ikke ”de fattigste af de fattige”. Men mange af passagererne var imidlertid analfabetiske og kunne ikke skrive deres navne på passagierlisten, så de bare skrev det første bogstav: desværre var de der for det meste bare ”M” – det samme forkortet form for dem alle - Mackenzie, McLeod, Macdonald osv. Du godeste, sikke et vanvid!!!

Der var ikke nogle pinlige interaktioner med de indfødte (Mi’kmaw) stammer, da de indvandringe landede på kysten af Nova Scotia. Skotterne havde medbragte deres obligatoriske sækkepiber, og begyndte at spille dem for at fejre deres sikre ankomst i den nye Verden, og de indfødte simpelthen løb væk ind i skovene.

Du godeste, sikke en skør verden vi lever i !!!!!

22:00 Vi går i seng – zzzzzzzzzzz!!!!!


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