Monday, 11 March 2019

Sunday, March 10 2019

08:30 Lois and I take a shower and after breakfast we talk a little on whatsapp with Sarah, our daughter in Perth, Australia, and her 5-year-old twins, Lily and Jessie. The twins are very excited - they have been to two playgrounds today, they tell us, and they have eaten two ice creams. My goodness! It is very hot and humid over there, it seems.

10:30 Lois wants to participate in her sect’s two services of worship today in Tewkesbury, but she has not yet decided whether to drive herself or ask me to drive her over there. Until yesterday, when she drove us both to the small town of Bishops Cleeve to do food-shopping, she hadn't driven a car for 3-4 weeks because of her new glasses, which she had had difficulty getting used to.

No decision yet, so I have no choice but to get ready to drive her, just to be on the safe side. But at the last minute she says she is going to pluck up courage and do it herself.

I hope she doesn't have any problems. The sun is shining for once, so I recommend she wear her sunglasses: Cheltenham to Tewkesbury is no problem, because the direction is northerly, but Tewkesbury to Cheltenham is more difficult, in particular later in the day because the direction is southerly - yikes, scary !

10:50 Lois goes out. I have a little alone time, so I resume work on our mini-downsizing project -  the aim is to get rid of the many unwanted belongings that our daughter Sarah left behind, under beds and in wardrobes etc, when she moved to Australia along with Francis and their 2 young children, in December 2015.

“Getting rid of “ means deciding to either throw them away, or donate them to some charity shop.

My priority this morning is to empty the storage space under one of the 3 beds in our other daughter Alison's old room. I pull everything out from under the bed - it's very much a mixed bag of things, to put it mildly, including, for example, all Sarah's claims for expenses that she applied for more than 15 years ago – good grief, what madness!

But I also find some nostalgic things - good-bye cards from some of her girlfriends etc when she moved to Australia etc. I get tears in my eyes – sob, sob!

I pull out from under the bed some of the unwanted belongings
our daughter Sarah left with us when she moved to
Perth, Australia, along with Francis and their young children, in December 2015

I also find Sarah's passport, which she used when I took her and Alison to the United States in 1993 to stay with my sister Kathy and her husband Steve in Norristown Pa., and also with the idea of meeting up with some of their old school friends from 1982 -85 when we lived in Columbia Md.



1993 - Kathy and Steve's house in Norristown Pa USA: (left to right)
Alison (18), Kathy (45), Sarah (16) and me (47)

in Kathy and Steve’s basement: (from left to right) Alison, Sarah and me

at a local restaurant with Kathy and Steve - happy times!!!!

Sarah used the same passport in 1995 when she travelled between Nairobi, Harare, Windhoek, etc. with a group of other young people, all strangers at the beginning of the trip, just after she left high school and before starting at Birmingham University. The passport has stamps from many African countries, including Zimbabwe, Zambia, Malawi, Tanzania, Zanzibar, Kenya, Namibia, Botswana and the like. My god, how brave she was, at  just 18 years of age - yikes!


Happy times, sob sob sob !!!

 flashback to 1995: Sarah in Botswana


Fish River Canyon, Namibia

 Cape Cross, Namibia

Victoria Falls

13:00 I have lunch and at the same time I see a little television, an interesting documentary (part 1 of 5) all about the history of London. The programme’s hosts are the charming Dan Jones, Suzannah Lipscomb and Rob Bell.



An interesting programme starting in 55 BC, when Julius Caesar and the Roman army arrived in the area and stayed for a short time over here, and later in 43 AD, when the army began to establish their newest colony, Britannia, in earnest . One of the first things they did was to build a bridge near the current London Bridge. It became the city's only bridge for 1600 years – my god, what madness !!!

The city's name is a bit of a mystery - it is very old - almost certainly pre-Celtic and no one is absolutely sure what the name means. It blows me away to think that some forgotten tribe that we know nothing about, thousands of years ago, gave the city the name we still use today. How amazing!

When the invading Anglo-Saxons arrived in the area in the 400's after the Roman Empire collapsed, they, perhaps for superstitious reasons, avoided settling in the ancient ruined Roman city with its city walls, preferring instead to build a new, smaller town of wooden houses 1 mile west of the original Roman town. They called the new town Lundenwic.

Unfortunately, Lundenwic had no city walls, which was a bit of a disadvantage when the Vikings arrived in AD 850, or so. So the Anglo-Saxons decided then it would be safer to move back into the ancient Roman city and back to the protection of the ancient Roman walls. They abandoned Lundenwic and thereafter referred to it as Aldwic, ie the old city. The area is still called Aldwych today, which is nice.

And it is fascinating to see the map of London getting bigger and bigger with the passing years.

the original city of London, in 47 AD, 4 years after
the founding of the new Roman colony of Britannia.

When the invading Anglo-Saxons arrived after the Roman Empire collapsed,
they avoided settling in the ancient Roman city and instead built their own new small town of
wooden houses, Lundenvic, 1 mile west of the old Roman city walls, 

16:00 Lois returns from Tewkesbury and we relax with a cup of tea and a piece of bread with homemade greengage marmalade - yum yum!

We look out the window - it has started to hail and shortly afterwards to snow. My god, what madness! But this week (on Tuesday), the year's big horse racing festival, Gold Cup Week, will be taking place just 1 mile away. The locals usually say that it is quite traditional to get snow this week, and we recently heard on the radio that in the UK we are much more likely to get snow in March than in February, which seems odd


It starts to hail and shortly afterwards to snow
- my god, what madness !!!

18:00 We have dinner, including, for dessert, one of Lois' homemade Christmas puddings, which happened to thaw out unintentionally when our freezer broke down last month. Yum yum!

one of Lois' homemade Christmas puddings - yum yum!

20:30 We talk a little on the phone with Alison, our elder daughter, who lives in Haslemere with Ed and their 3 children. The family lived in Copenhagen for almost 6 years, but they moved back to England last year. Ed has been unemployed for several months and the family has been living off a generous compensation package from Ed's former company. But it has now become rather urgent for him to find a new job, and he has recently had a couple of job interviews, with another one in the offing, which sounds promising.

21:00 We see a little television - a rather weird film called "Arcadia", all about getting back to nature and awakening our inner child or (conversely) our inner devil, getting back in touch with the natural world, embracing the carnal and that kind of thing.



We see a lot of old black-and-white movies about the old rural way of life out in the countryside, also old animalistic or satanic rural rituals, nudism in the open air, Stonehenge festivals, fertility rituals, devil worship, and suchlike.

It all looks like a lot of fun, but Lois and I are afraid that at 72 years of age we have maybe left it too late to take up these exciting new hobbies such as devil worship, but that’s something we are not completely sure about - the jury is still out on that one.




Lois and I discuss the issue of nudism. We think it became a bit of a craze in the 1930’s, as part of a general campaign to get people to go out in the country, and into the open air, to do sports and take exercise, go for walks in the woods, etc., with the aim of improving the health and fitness of the Brits and that kind of thing.

In the 1950’s and 60’s, when Lois and I were children and teenagers, nudism had become a bit of a joke for comedians such as Benny Hill and the "Carry on" film franchise to make fun of. We used to watch nudists play tennis for example, but strategically placed trees, flowers or other objects always prevented the viewers from seeing anything saucy, which was probably a good thing - but that’s something the jury's still out on. 

Inspector Clouseau (Peter Sellers) going incognito in a nudist camp.

The Danes, of course, have always had a completely different attitude to nudism than us, to put it mildly!

This week is certainly not a good time for Lois and me to take up nudism, because of Gold Cup Week and all the associated traffic jams, etc. Next week maybe.

22:00 We go to bed - zzzzzzzz !!!!!!

Danish translation

08:30 Lois og jeg tager et brusebad og efter morgenmad taler vi lidt på whatsapp med Sarah, vores datter i Perth, Australien, og hendes 5-årige tvilinger, Lily og Jessie. Tvillingerne er meget begejstrede – de har besøgt to legepladser i dag, fortæller de os, og de har spist to is . Du godeste! Det er meget varmt og lummert derovre, lader det til.

10:30 Lois ønsker at deltage i sin sekts to gudtjenester i dag i Tewkesbury, men hun har ikke besluttet endnu, om hun vil køre sig selv, eller beder mig om, at køre hende derover. Indtil i går, da hun kørte os begge over til den lille by Bishops Cleeve for at gå madindkøb, havde hun ikke kørt bil i 3-4 uger, på grund af sine nye briller, som hun havde svært ved at vænne sig til.

Ingen beslutning endnu, så jeg har ikke andet valg, end at forberede mig på at køre hende, for en sikkerheds skyld. Men på sidste øjeblik siger hun, at hun skal tage mod til sig og gøre det sig selv.

Jeg håber på, at hun ikke har problemer.  Solen skinner for engangs skyld, så anbefaler jeg hende at tage sine solbriller med:  Cheltenham til Tewkesbury er ikke noget problem, fordi retningen er nordlig, men Tewkesbury til Cheltenham er mere svær i sær senere på dagen, fordi retningen er sydlig – yikes, skræmmende!

10:50 Lois skal ud. Jeg har lidt alenetid, så går jeg i gang med at genoptage vores mini-downsize-projekt med det formål af, at blive fri for de mange uønskede ejendele, som vores datter Sarah efterlod under senge og i garderober, da hun i december 2015 flyttede til Australien, sammen med Francis og deres 2 små børn.

Dét, at ”blive fri for de der mange ejendele” betyder dét, at beslutte enten at smide dem væk eller donere dem til en eller anden velgørenhedsbutik.

Min prioritet i formiddag er at tømme lagerummet under en af de 3 senge i vores anden datter Alisons gamle værelse. Jeg trækker alting ud fra under sengen – det er en blandet landhandel, for at sige mildt, inklusive for eksempel Sarahs krav til udgifter, som hun ansøgte om for mere end 15 år siden – du godeste, sikke et vanvid! Men også finder jeg nogle nostalgiske ting – farvelkort fra nogle af hendes veninder osv, da hun flyttede til Australien osv. Jeg får tårer i øjnene – hulk, hulk!

jeg trækker ud fra under sengen nogle af de uønskede ejendele
vores datter Sarah efterlod hos os, da hun i december 2015 flytted til
Perth, Australien, sammen med Francis og deres små børn

Jeg finder også Sarahs pas, som hun brugte, da jeg tog hende og Alison med til USA i 1993, for at bo hos min søster Kathy og hendes mand Steve i Norristown Pa., også for at mødes med nogle af deres gamle skolevenner fra 1982-85, da vi boede i Columbia Md



Kathy og Steves hus i Norristown Pa USA: (fra venstre til højre)
Alison (18), Kathy (45), Sarah (16) og mig (47)

i husets kælder: (fra venstre til højre) Alison, Sarah og mig

på en lokal restaurant, sammen med Kathy og Steve - lykkelige tider !!!

Sarah brugte samme pas i 1995, da hun rejste mellem Nairobi, Harare, Windhoek osv med en gruppe andre unge mennesker, alle fremmede i begyndelsen af rejsen, lige efter hun havde forladt højskole og før hun startede i Birmingham University. Passet har stempelmærker fra mange afrikanske lande, herunder Zimbabwe, Zambia, Malawi, Tanzania, Zanzibar, Kenya, Namibia, Botswana og lignende. Du godeste, hvor modig hun var på kun 18 år – yikes!


Lykkelige tider, hulk hulk hulk !!!








13:00 Jeg spiser frokost og samtidig ser jeg lidt fjernsyn, en interessant dokumentarfilm (1. del af 5), der handler om historien af London. Programmets værter er de charmerende Dan Jones, Suzannah Lipscomb og Rob Bell.



Et interessant program, der starter i 55 før Kr, da Julius Cæsar og den romerske hær ankom til området og opholdte sig en kort tid herovre, og senere i 43 e. Kr, da hæren begyndte at grundlægge deres nyeste koloni, Britannia, for alvor. En af de første ting, de gjorde, var at bygge en bro, i nærheden af den nuværende London Bridge. Den blev byens eneste bro i 1600 år – du godeste, sikke et vanvid!!!

Byens navn er lidt af et mysterium – det er meget meget gammelt – næsten bestemt for-keltisk og ingen er helt sikker på, hvad navnet betyder. Det der blæser mig væk, at tænke, at ét eller andet folk, som vi ved intet om, for tusindvis af år siden gav byen det navn, vi stadig bruger i dag. Hvor fantastisk!

Da de invaderende angelsaksere ankom i 400-tallet i området efter romerriget kollapsede, undgik de måske på overtroiske grunde, at bosætte sig i det gamle ruinerede romerske by med dens bymure, og foretrak i stedet for at bygge en ny, mindre by, bestående bare af træhuse, 1 mile vest for den oprindelig romerske by. De kaldte den nye by Lundenwic.

Desværre havde Lundenwic  ingen bymure, hvilket var lidt af en ulempe, da vikingerne ankom i 850 e. Kr, eller deromkring, så besluttede angelsakserne at flytte tilbage ind i den gamle romerske by og tilbage til beskyttelsen af de gamle romerske mure. De forlod Lundenwic og derefter henviste de til den som Aldwic, dvs den gamle by. Området hedder stadig Aldwych i dag, hvilket er rart.

Og det er fascinerende at se kortet over London blive større og større med hvert år, der går.

den oprindelige by London, i 47 e.Kr, 4 år efter
grundlagelsen af den nye romerske koloni Britannia.

Da de invaderende angelsakser ankom efter romerriget kollapsede,
undgik de at bosætte sig i den gamle romerske by, og slog sig ned i en nybygget
lille by bestående  af træhuse, 1 miles vest for de gamle romerske bymure.

16:00 Lois kommer tilbage fra Tewkesbury og vi slapper af med en kop te og et stykke brød med hjemmelavet reineclaudemarmelade – yum yum!

Vi kigger ud af vinduet – det er begyndt at hagle, og kort efter at sne. Du godeste, sikke et vanvid! Men denne uge (på tirsdag) vil årets største hestevæddeløbsfestival, Gold Cup Week, finde sted, kun 1 mile væk herfra. De lokale plejer at sige, at det er helt traditionelt at få sne denne uge, og vi hørt for nylig i radio, at det i Storbritannien er langt mere sandsynligt at man får sne i marts, end i februar, hvilket virker mærkeligt


Det begynder at hagle, og kort efter at sne – du godeste, sikke et vanvid!!!

18:00 Vi spiser aftensmad, herunder, til dessert, en af Lois’ hjemmelavede julebuddinger, der tilfældigvis tøede op, da vores fryser sidste måned gik i stå. Yum yum!

en af Lois’ hjemmelavede julebuddinger – yum yum!

20:30 Vi taler lidt på telefon med Alison, vores ældste datter, der bor i Haslemere sammen med Ed og deres 3 børn. Familien boede i næsten 6 år i København, men de flyttede sidste år tilbage til England. Ed har været arbejdsløs i flere måneder, og familien har levet af en generøs kompensationsspakke fra Eds tidligere firma. Men det er nu blevet lidt presserende, at han finder et nyt job, og han har for nylig haft et par jobsamtaler, og har endnu én i opsejling, hvilket lyder lovende.

21:00 Vi ser lidt fjernsyn. De viser en lidt mærkelig film, der hedder ”Arcadia”, og som handler om at komme tilbage til naturen og vække vores indre barn eller vores indre djævel, komme tilbage i kontakt med den naturlige verden, også forfølge det kødelige i livet og den slags.




Vi ser en masse gamle sorte-og-hvide filmsekvenser om det gamle liv ude på landet, også gamle dyriske eller sataniske landsbyritualer, nudisme i naturen, Stonehenge-festivaler, nudistlejrer, frugtbarhedsritualer, djævletilbedelse, og den slags.

Det hele ser ud som meget sjovt, men Lois og jeg er bange for, at det nu på 72 år er for sent at indtage disse begejstrende nye hobbies såsom djævletilbedelse, men det er vi ikke helt sikre på – juryen er stadig ud om det.




Lois og jeg diskuterer spørgsmålet om nudisme. Vi tror, det blev til lidt af en dille i 1930’erne, som en del af en generel kampagne efter at få mennesker at gå ude på landet, dyrke sport og motion, gå ture i skovene osv, for at forbedre englænderes sundhed og fitness, og den slags.

I 1950’erne og 60’erne, da Lois og jeg var børn og teenagere, havde nudisme blevet til lidt af en vittighed for komikere såsom Benny Hill og”Carry on” filmfranchisen  til at lave sjov med. Vi plejede at se nudister spille tennis for eksempel, men strategisk placerede trær og andre genstander hindrede altid tv-seerne i at se noget frækt, hvilket sandsynligvis var en god ting – men det er juryen stadi ude om. Danskerne har selvfølgelig altid haft en helt anderledes holdning til nudisme, end os, for at sige mildt!

Inspector Clouseau (Peter Sellers) gående incognito i en nudistlejr.

Denne uge er i hvert fald ikke en god tid til at indtage nudism, på grund af Gold Cup Week og alle de færdelige traffikpropper osv. Næste uge måske.

22:00 Vi går i seng – zzzzzzzz!!!!!!


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