Monday, 12 August 2019

Sunday 11 August 2019


10:00 Lois and I see our neighbour Bob go out, so I pop out into the backyard and clip along the top of the hedge that marks off our patio from Bob’s.

I use my secateurs and work by hand because the hedge is very wet from two days of rain – good grief, what madness!! In the middle of my work, Bob comes back and we greet each other - I think he's happy with what I've been able to accomplish so far - he seems to smile a little, which is a good sign. I always like to please him, that’s for sure!

Our neighbour Bob in happier times,
on his grandson's wedding day (2015)

11:00 Sarah, our daughter in Perth, Australia, calls us on whatsapp at the twins' bedtime, so that we can see and hear her read a bedtime story to Lily and Jessie, which is very heart-warming. How cute they are though!!!!

Afterwards, she hangs up so she can put them to bed. But unfortunately, we did not have an opportunity to talk to her about her husband Francis's many physical problems: back pain and knee pain especially. That will have to wait for another day. But all in all, it seems that everything has returned to normal in the family, following Thursday's shock diagnosis from Francis' specialist. Let's hope it continues that way!






Flashback to April 2015 - Sarah and Francis in happier times:
in the Big Valley Campsite with Lois and me

12:30 Lois sits down in the dining room with the computer and takes part online in her sect's worship service, taking place today in Tewkesbury library – her back has been hurting her for the past few days and she is not in a state to be able to drive or ride to Tewkesbury and then stay sitting through a whole service: I know that for sure.

I go into the sitting-room. This is a good opportunity for me to watch the second episode of the Danish thriller series, "Below the Surface", now that Lois is busy with her sect’s service, which lasts an hour to an hour and a half.

She does not like the occasional violent scenes in these Danish TV series. I do not like them myself, but this does not stop me watching them: it is a good opportunity to hear real Danish being spoken, and also the members of our U3A Danish group will no doubt be watching the series and will not hesitate to discuss the plot during our next group meeting: that’s why it is my clear duty to see it too ha ha ha!


The plot revolves around a Danish policeman or detective, Philip, who is in the middle of a long work break - due to a mental breakdown of some sort. Philip's partner, Beate, in fact the psychiatrist who treated him after his breakdown, is very anxious for Philip not to go back to his old job in the police.

The couple seem to have a good sex life - their “sheet gymnastics” (as the Danes say) are so loud that Beate's little son, Asger, needs to turn on one of his computer games to muffle the noise they’re making – my god, what madness!

 Philip, the hero of the drama, with his partner Beate, his former psychiatrist



 Philip with Beate’s son Asgar

Unfortunately, in the first episode, Philip is forced to get involved in a police case, a little against his will.

A young Danish woman of Arab origin, June, has returned from Syria with a video proving that Danish soldiers have been involved in the war against ISIS. She sends the video to Philip initially - she does not know that he is not currently working for the police any more.

Now several groups are out to get her: first and foremost a bunch of young Arab guys in a red Audi who manage to kidnap June - they get her on board a ferry to Sweden, where they expect to be paid for delivering her to somebody, either a criminal or a terrorist of some kind - I'm not quite sure exactly who.

Philip traces the movements of the Arab guys with the help of his little sister Kiki and her boyfriend who can work out the location of the cell phones used by the Arab guys.

Philip drives to Helsingør and just makes the ferry by the skin of his teeth, by vaulting over a scarily massive gap (15 feet ???) between the ferry and the quay as the ferry starts edging away from the quay and sailing off towards Sweden. What madness !!!




In this second episode, the ferry ride turns into a bit of a nightmare, to put it mildly. Three of the kidnappers pass the journey sitting in the ferry's lounge, while one of them sits in the Audi on the car deck, with their kidnapping victim, June, locked inside the trunk.

June manages to escape from the trunk and stab her guard in the chest. She is now on the loose somewhere on the ferry. But when the kidnappers realise that she has escaped, they panic, especially when they see that the ferry is about to dock in Helsingborg and that the Swedish police are waiting for their arrival: Philip has warned the police that there are terrorists on board the ship. The kidnappers therefore decide to hijack the ferry and they order the captain to turn the ship around and sail out to sea again.

Good grief, what a sick world we live in !!!!!

the terrorists order the captain of the ferry not to dock in Helsingborg, Sweden,
but to turn the ship around and sail out to sea again - scary !!!

However, I immediately recognise the actor in the role of the captain - though I don't remember his name. We have seen him many times before in various Danish TV series. Suddenly, it occurs to me that the captain must play an important role in this story - otherwise such a prominent actor would not have agreed to take the role on, that’s for sure. Yikes - that means most of the drama is going to play out on the ferry - yikes (again) !!!!!

It feels a little weird to me that the ferry on which this dramatic story is taking place is the one Lois and I travelled on in 2016, together with our daughter Alison, her husband Ed, and their 3 children. The family were living in Copenhagen at the time and they took us on an excursion to Lind, Sweden on December 26, and we drove back to Denmark via the Helsinborg-Helsingør ferry, which is a bit of a coincidence, to put it mildly. My goodness, I am very glad no terrorist attack occurred on that occasion, no doubt about that!

Flashback to December 2016: the GPS in Ed's car:
we drive north from Lund to Helsingborg in Sweden

We board the ferry

our daughter Alison (right), with 2 of her 3 children:
Rosalind (then 8) and Isaac (then 6)

14:00 Lois' service ends and we have lunch a little later than usual. Afterwards, Lois sits down with the Radio-Times crossword while I go to bed to take a short afternoon nap. She joins me at 4 pm and hops up into the bed, which is nice. I read about 20 pages of my bedtime book and we tumble out of bed at 5 pm or so, and relax with a cup of tea and a biscuit on the couch.

19:00 We have dinner. Everything is happening today about 1 hour later than usual. But what does it matter to us! We are retired ha ha ha!

21:00 We watch a little television, but it's a bit of a thin evening, as far as the programmes are concerned. We choose a documentary about Queen Elizabeth's uncles, Prince David (briefly Edward VIII), Prince George, Prince Henry, and the Queen’s aunt, princess Mary.


The programme is based in part on a collection of Princess Mary's personal letters, which have recently been published:  many from her siblings, who reveal what they really thought about events in the 1920’s and 1930’s as well as what they thought about each other and about their parents, King George V and Queen Mary. This is particularly interesting because we hear about their true opinions - as members of the royal house, of course, they were not allowed to express these opinions in public during their lifetime.

It’s obvious from these letters that all 5 of King George's children suffered as a result of their father's style of fatherhood, which was incredibly authoritarian, to put it mildly, and all of them were mentally damaged to a greater or lesser extent.

Britain was incredibly lucky, Lois and I believe, in the fact that it was "Bertie", the King's second son, who eventually inherited the throne in 1936 as George VI after his big brother Edward's abdication.

Bertie was the only prince with a real sense of responsibility, though he was incredibly nervous and used to stammer when speaking in public. But he was also brave, and with his heart in the right place - and he and his wife gave us our present Queen, Elizabeth, who for almost 70 years has seen us through hard times, to put it mildly ha ha ha!

It is interesting to hear a little about Prince George and Prince Henry, the Queen's uncles, whom Lois and I knew very little about before seeing this programme. We also hear about the two princes' many affairs - we did not know that Henry had a relationship with the famous Kenya-educated aviator and "bush pilot", Beryl Markham, whom he first met in Nairobi. She was the first person to fly solo nonstop across the Atlantic from east to west.

Beryl Markham, Prince Henry's mistress, in 1936 the first person
to fly solo nonstop across the Atlantic from east to west

Beryl in happier times, with a slightly smaller Band-Aid

22:00 We go to bed - zzzzzzz !!!!


Danish translation:  søndag 11 august 2019

10:00 Vi ser vores nabo Bob køre af sted. Jeg går ud i baghaven og klipper toppen af den hæk, der afgrænser terrassen bag vores hus fra vores nabo Bobs terrasse. Jeg bruger min beskæresaks og arbejder i hånden, fordi hækken er meget våd af to dages regnvejr – du godeste, sikke et vanvid!! Midt i mit arbejde kommer Bob tilbage, og vi hilser hinanden – jeg synes, han er glad for, hvad det har lykkedes mig at opnå – han synes at smile lidt, hvilket er et godt tegn. Jeg kan lide at behage ham, det ved jeg med sikkerhed!

Vores nabo Bob i lykkeligere tider (2015)

11:00 Sarah, vores datter i Perth, Australien, ringer til os på whatsapp, så vi kan se og høre hende læse en sengetidfortælling til sine 6-årige tvillinger, Lily og Jessie, hvilket er meget hjertevarmende. Hvor er de dog søde!!!!

Bagefter lægger hun på for at putte dem i seng. Men desværre har vi ikke haft en lejlighed til at snakke med hende om Francis, hendes mands fysiske problemer: rygsmerterne og knæsmerterne. Det må blive en anden dag. Men alt i alt, ser det ud som om, alting er vendt tilbage til det normale i familien, efter torsdagen chokdiagnose fra Francis’ specialist. Lad os håbe det fortsætter!






Tilbageblik til Sarah og Francis i lykkeligere tider: april 2015
i Big Valley-campingpladsen sammen med Lois og mig

12:30 Lois sætter sig i spisestuen med computeren og deltage på nettet i sin sekts gudstjeneste, der finder sted i byen Tewkesburys bibliotek – hun har de seneste få dage haft ondt i ryggen, og ikke er i stand til at køre til Tewkesbury og blive siddende igennem en hel gudstjeneste: det ved jeg med sikkerhed.

Dette er en god lejlighed til, at jeg ser det 2. afsnit af den danske thrillerserie, ”Below the Surface”, nu hvor Lois er beskæftiget med sin sekts gudjeneste, der varer en time til en time og en halv.

Hun kan ikke lide de lejlighedsvise voldsomme scener i disse danske tv-serier. Selv kan jeg ikke lide dem, men dette stopper mig ikke i at se dem: det er en god mulighed at høre ægte dansk blive talt, og også medlemmerne af vores U3A danske gruppe vil uden tvivl se serien og vil ikke tøve med at diskutere plottet under vores næste gruppemøde: derfor er det min klare pligt at se den også ha ha ha!


Plottet kredser om en danske politimand eller detektiv, Philip, der er i midten af en lange arbejdspause – på grund af et psykisk sammenbrud af en eller anden art. Philips partner, Beate, faktisk den psykiater, der behandlede ham efter sit sammenbrud, er meget ivrig efter, at Philip ikke går tilbage til sit gamle job i politiet.

Parret synes at have et godt sexliv – deres lagengymnastik er så højlydt, at Beates lille søn, Asger, behøver at tænde et af sine computerspil på for at overdøve lydene – du godeste sikke et vanvid!!!!


Philip, dramaets helt, med sin partner Beate, sin tidligere psykiater


Philip med Beates søn Asgar

Desværre bliver Philip i det 1. afsnit involveret i en politisag,  ikke med sin gode vilje (eller er det faktisk det modsatte?). En ung dansk kvinde af arabisk oprindelse, June, er kommet tilbage fra Syrien med en video, der beviser, at danske soldater er blevet involveret i krigen mod ISIS. Hun sender videoet i begyndelsen til Philip – hun ved ikke, at han i øjeblikket ikke arbejder for politiet mere.

Nu er flere grupper ude efter hende:  først og fremmest et bundt unge arabiske fyre i en rød Audi, der når at kidnappe June - de er nu i gang med at tage hende med færgen til Sverige, hvor de forventer at blive betalt for at aflevere hende til enten en forbryder eller en terrorist af en eller anden art – jeg er ikke helt sikker på, præcis hvem.

Philip opsporer de arabiske fyres bevægelser ved hjælp af sin lillesøster Kiki og hendes kæreste, der kan finde ud af beliggenheden af de mobiltelefoner, de arabiske fyre bruger. Philip kører til Helsingør og når færgen på et hængende hår, ved at springe over en skræmmende massiv spalte (15 fods???) mellem færgen og kajen, da færgen begynder at kante sig væk fra kajen og sejle af sted til Sverige. Sikke et vanvid!!!




I dette 2. afsnit, bliver færgekørslen til lidt af et mareridt, for at sige mildt. Tre af kidnapperere sidder i færgens lounge, mens en af dem sidder i Audien på bildækket, med deres kidnapoffer, June, låst inde i bagagerummet.

June når at undslippe fra bagagerummet og stikke hendes vagt i brystet. Hun er nu på fri fod ét eller andet sted om bord færgen. Når kidnapperne bliver klar over, at hun er undsluppet, går de i panik, i sær når de ser, at færgen er ved at dokke i Helsingborg, og at det svenske politi venter på deres ankomst: Philip har advaret dem, at der er terrorister om bord skibet. Kidnapperne beslutter derfor at kaptre færgen og de beordrer kaptajnen at vende skibet om og sejle ud på havet igen.

Du godeste, sikke en syg verden vi lever i !!!!!


terroristerne beordrer færgens kaptajn ikke at dokke i Helsingborg, Sverige,
men vende skibet om og sejle ud på havet igen – skræmmende!!!

Men jeg genkender umiddelbart skuespilleren i kaptajnens rolle – selvom jeg husker ikke hans navn. Vi har set ham mange gange før i forskellige danske tv-serier. Pludselig falder det mig ind, at kaptajnen må være en vigtig rolle i denne historie – ellers ville denne skuespiller ikke har aftalt at tage rollen, det ved jeg med sikkerhed. Yikes – det betyder, at hovedparten af dramaet kommer til at spille sig ud om bord færgen – yikes (igen) !!!!!

Det er underligt for mig at tænke på, at færgen, hvor dette dramatiske historie spiller sig ud, er dén, Lois og jeg rejste med i 2016, sammen med vores datter Alison, hendes mand Ed, og deres 3 børn. Familien boede dengang i København og de tog os den 26. december på udflugt til Lind, Sverige, og vi kørte tilbage til Danmark ved Helsinborg-Helsingør færgen, hvilket er lidt af en tilfældighed, for at sige mildt. Du godeste, jeg er meget glad for, at der skete ingen terroristangreb på den der anledning, ingen tvivl om det!


Tilbageblik til december 2016:  gps’en i Eds bil: vi kører nordpå fra Lund til Helsingborg i Sverige


Vi kører ombord på færgen


vores datter Alison (til højre), og 2 a hendes 3 børn:
Rosalind (dengang 8 år) og Isaac (dengang 6 år)


14:00 Lois’ gudstjeneste slutter og vi spiser frokost, lidt senere, end normalt. Bagefter sætter Lois sig med Radio-Times-krydsogtværs, mens jeg går i seng for at tage en kort eftermiddagslur. Hun slutter sig til mig kl 16 og hopper op i sengen, hvilket er rart.

Jeg læser omkring 20 sider af min sengetidbog, og vi vælter ud af sengen kl 17 eller deromkring, og slapper af med en kop te og en kiks i sofaen.

19:00 Vi spiser aftensmad. Der sker alting i dag omkring 1 time senere, end normalt. Men hvad rager det os! Vi er pensionerede ha ha ha!

21:00 Vi ser lidt fjernsyn, men det er lidt af en tynd aften, hvad angår programmerne. Vi vælger en dokumentarfilm, der handler om dronning Elizabeths onkler, prins David (Edward 8.), prins Georg, prins Henry, og dronningens tante Mary.



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Programmet er delvis baseret på en samling af princesse Marys personlige breve, som er for nylig blevet offentliggjort: mange af dem fra hendes  søskende, der afslører, hvad de virkelig mente om begivenheder i 1920’erne og 1930’erne også om hinanden og om deres forældre, kong Georg 5. og dronning Mary. Dette er i særdeleshed interessant, fordi vi hører om deres personlige meninger – som medlemmer af kongehuset, var de selvfølgelig ikke tilladt at udtrykke disse meninger i offentlighed under deres livtider.

Det er klart, at alle 5 af kong Georg 5.s børn led som resultatet af deres fars opdragelsesstil, der var utrolig autoritær, for at sige mildt, og de alle blev ødelagt psykisk i større eller mindre grad.

Storbritannien var utroligt heldig, mener Lois og jeg, i at det var ”Bertie”, kongens 2. søn, der til sidst arvede tronen i 1936 efter sin storbro Edwards abdikation.

Bertie var den eneste prins med en rigtig sans for ansvarlighed, selvom han var utrolig nervøs og plejede at stamme, når han talte i offentlighed. Men han var også modig, med et hjerte i det rigtige sted – og han og hans kone gav os vores nuværende dronning Elizabeth, som i næsten 70 år har set os gennem hårde tider, for at sige mildt  ha ha ha!

Det er interessant at høre lidt om prins Georg og prins Henry, dronningens onkler, som Lois og jeg vidste meget lidt, før vi ser dette program. Vi hører også om deres mange affærer – vi vidste ikke, at Henry havde et forhold med den berømte kvindelige flyver og ”bushpilot”, fru Beryl Markham, som han først mødte i Nairobi. Hun var den første person til at flyve alene nonstop over Atlanterhavet fra øst til vest.


Beryl Markham, prins Henrys elskerinde, i 1936 den første person
til at flyve alene nonstop over Atlanterhavet fra øst til vest


Beryl i lykkeligere tider, med en lidt mindre plaster

22:00 Vi går i seng – zzzzzzz!!!!


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