Wednesday, 11 July 2018

Sunday 8 July 2018 – Tuesday 10 July 2018


Sunday, July 8, 2018

09:00 We drive over to our eldest daughter Alison's house in Haslemere, Surrey. I've got out of the habit of doing long drives in the car. It only takes about 2 hours, but I find it a bit of a challenge. I am getting old, no doubt about that. We make only one stop on the way: Reading Services, to pop to the toilet and grab a cup of coffee.

This is our first visit to a motorway services area for 5 years and we get a bit of a shock, I must say. Unfortunately, the services company has stopped its own restaurant: there are only concessions now - Costa, BurgerKing etc, and they all have long queues where customers wait while waitresses faff about making and serving complicated coffee orders - good grief, what madness !! I give up and decide to drink my bottle of water in the car - damn it!

12:00 We arrive at Alison's house and have lunch with Alison, Ed, her husband, and their 3 children, Josie (11), Rosalind (10) and Isaac (7).

Our 3 grandchildren welcome us at the door

15:00 We drive to our hotel, and Lois and I check in and we take our suitcase up to our room. Afterwards, we have a cup of tea in a nearby cafe together with Alison's family, and then all 7 of us go for a short walk in the area of Devil's Punchbowl "crater", a deep valley, which was actually created by soil erosion over many millennia.


We go for a short walk around the edge of the Devil's Punchbowl,
a giant crater, created by millennia of soil erosion

We all go back to Alison and Ed's house and relax with the family and get to know their 2 Danish street cats.

Lois and I get to know the family's 2 Danish street cats.

The family arrived back to England from Copenhagen a week ago and they have been very busy unpacking their moving boxes, arranging furniture and belongings, etc.

After dinner, Lois and I drive back to our hotel.

Monday, July 9, 2018

We spend the day with Alison and her family. In the morning, Ed goes to Basingstoke for a little chat with his career counselor, whom his former company assigned to him after they let him go at the end of March.

Ed is not rushing to find a new job. He is primarily focused on finding "the right job". His previous job was at a fairly high level, where vacancies are quite rare. Ed's career counselors have assured him that it's better to wait a few months for the right job to come up at the right level, rather than taking a job at a lower level, and then working his way up.

Lois and I suspect he got a very generous amount of compensation because the family does not seem to be short of cash, to say the least!

10:30 Ed has to leave. The younger 2 children, Rosalind (10) and Isaac (7) are in school today.

Lois and I, Alison, and Josie (11) talk a little on whatsapp with our younger daughter Sarah, her husband, Francis, and their (soon to be) 5-year-old twins in Perth, Australia.

Afterwards we drive Alison and Josie into the town of Haslemere. All 4 of us have not seen the town for almost 6 years, so it's very interesting to see the changes: new stores, shops that have disappeared, etc.

We swing by Barrista café and have a cup of coffee. This is the cafe where Alison and the other local young mothers used to meet many years ago, all with their huge modern baby buggies. There are no young mothers in there today - it seems that someone else's cafe somewhere else must be the fashionable place nowadays. Times change, no doubt about that.

We swing by the Barrista café and have a cup of coffee.

We take a little look round the town. Many shops have large painted statues of hares in front of their doors. This kind of custom is fashionable at the moment - many small English towns choose some animal or other as their town's "symbol" - the phenomenon attracts tourists, I have no doubts about that. They are very photogenic.



We take a little look round the town. Many stores are new
since the last time we were in town (almost 5 years ago)

Ed comes back from Basingstoke and we all have lunch.

15:00 We drive in two cars to the school to pick up Rosalind and Isaac. Afterwards we drive to a local garden center. Ali and Ed want to buy a lot of new plants to brighten up the garden, and create a little interest there in a garden which is currently quite bland and without distinctive character, after the family's 6-year absence in Denmark.

Lois and Isaac standing in front of a Morgan vintage car 
in the garden center's parking lot

17:00 All 7 of us drive back to Alison and Ed's house and have dinner. Afterwards, we show them our photos from our recent vacation in Perth, Australia with our younger daughter Sarah and her young family.

21:00 Lois and I drive back to our hotel and collapse into bed after 11 hours of chatting. It's a bit of a shock in comparison to our usual days where we, like the 2 old crows we are, spend mostly quiet and peaceful days alone in the huge house that we bought in 1986, when our 2 daughters were small, Alison 10 years old and Sarah just 8. Yikes - we are getting old, no doubt about that !!!!!

But it has been so nice to be able to visit Alison's family now they are back in England and so we do not need to board a plane to see them. They are a lovely family.

Tuesday, July 10, 2018

9:00 pm Lois and I check out of our hotel and drive back to Cheltenham. We have to go back to take care of Minx, Alison's former cat, whom she left with us when the family moved to Copenhagen in November 2012. Our neighbors, Stephen and Frances, were looking after Minx until last night, but this morning they fly to the Czech Republic for a week's vacation with Frances' old penfriend.

12:00 We come home and have lunch. Afterwards we go to bed and take a huge afternoon nap.

18:00 We have dinner and spend the rest of the evening watching television. A scary documentary film (No. 3 in the series), all about Trump and the American press, especially the New York Times, which the president is not on good terms with, to put it mildly!


A fascinating 3rd episode covering, among other things, the violence in Charlottesville with Trump's reaction, and Mueller's work as a special investigator, looking into connections between Trump's election campaign and Russia.

It's very nice to see and hear decent and intelligent people (the newspaper reporters) telling the truth about Trump: the fact that he is completely comfortable with telling lies, making up stories, hurling abuse like a schoolboy against his political opponents and against the press etc. Of course, we already know all this well enough, but it is nice to hear it being confirmed by the newspaper's journalists.

Many of these events are well-known, but in some ways the most shocking and scary scene appears in the middle of the program, when we see Trump speaking to his supporters in Phoenix, Arizona. He abuses the journalists sitting at the back of the hall, and incites the audience to shout at them and threaten them. The result is that the journalists leave the hall.





Journalists are threatened by Trump's followers and leave the hall

Trump is an ignorant, uncultured man who knows nothing about history, so he probably does not know how once democratic societies in the 1920s and 1930s, such as Germany, Italy, Japan, got into a downward slide and ended up becoming dictatorships through similar campaigns of intimidation. Yuck!

Pass the sickbag, Alice !!!!

22:00 We go to bed - zzzzzzzzz !!!!!


Danish translation

Søndag den 8 juli 2018

09:00 Vi kører over til vores ældste datter Alisons hus i Haslemere, Surrey. Jeg er kommet ud af vane med at køre lange kørsler i bilen. Det tager kun ca. 2 timer, men jeg finder det hele lidt af en udfordring. Jeg bliver gammel, ingen tvivl om det. Vi gør holdt kun engang undervejs:  Reading -rastepladsen, for at smutte på toilettet og snuppe en kop  kaffe.

Dette er vores første besøg på en motorvejsrasteplads i 5 år og vi får lidt ef en chok, det må jeg nok sige.   Desværre har rastepladsen stoppet sin egen restaurant: der er kun koncessioner – Costa, BurgerKing osv, og de har alle lange køer, hvor kunderne venter, mens servitricer beskæftiger sig med at lave og servere komplicerede kaffeordre – du godeste, sikke et vanvid!! Jeg opgiver og beslutter at drikke min flaske vand i bilen – pokkers!

12:00 Vi ankommer til Alisons hus og spiser frokost sammen med Alison, Ed, hendes mand, og deres 3 børn, Josie (11), Rosalind (10) og Isaac (7).

Vores 3 børnebørn byder os velkommen ved døren

15:00 Vi kører til vores hotel, og Lois og jeg tjekker ind og tager vores kuffert med op til vores værelse. Bagefter drikker vi en kop te i en nærliggende café sammen med Alisons familie, og så gør vi alle 7 en kort tur i området omkring Devil’s Punchbowl-”krateret”, en dyb dal, der faktisk blev skabt af jorderosion over årtusinder.


vi går en kort tur omkring kanten af Devil’s Punchbowl,
et kæmpe-krater, skabt af årtusinders jorderosion

Vi kommer alle tilbage til Alison og Eds hus og slapper af med familien og lærer deres 2 danske gadekatte at kende.

Lois og jeg lærer familiens 2 danske gadekatte at kende.

Familien ankom tilbage til England fra København for en uge siden, og de har haft meget travlt med at pakke deres flyttepakker op, arrangere møbler og ejendele osv.

Efter aftensmad kører Lois og jeg tilbage til vores hotel.

Mandag den 9 juli 2018

Vi tilbringer dagen med Alison og hendes familie. Om formiddagen skal Ed til Basingstoke for at snakke lidt med sin karriererådgiver, som hans tidligere selskab anviste ham, efter de afskedigede ham ved slutningen af marts måned.

Ed skynder sig ikke at finde et nyt job. Han er først og fremmest fokuseret på at finde det ”rigtige job”. Hans tidligere job var på et temmelig højt niveau, hvor ledige stillenger er ganske sjældne. Eds karriererådgivere har forsikret ham, at det er bedre at vente nogle måneder på, at det rigtige job på det rigtige niveau dukker sig, snarere end, at eksempelvis tage et job på et lavere niveau og så arbejde sig op til det rigtige niveau.

Lois og jeg mistænker, han fik et meget generøst erstatningsbeløb, fordi familien ikke synes at være i bekneb for skillinger, for at sige mildt!

10:30 Ed skal af sted. De yngre 2 børn, Rosalind (10) og Isaac (7) er på skolen.

Lois og jeg, Alison, og Josie (11) taler lidt på whatsapp med vores yngste datter Sarah, hendes mand, Francis, og hendes (snart) 5-årige tvillinger i Perth, Australien.

Bagefter kører vi Alison og Josie ind i byen Haslemere. Vi har alle 4 ikke set byen i næsten 6 år, så er det meget interessant at se forandringerne:  nye butikker, butikker, der er forsvandt osv.

Vi smutter ind hos Barrista-caféen og drikker en kop kaffe. Denne er caféen, hvor Alison og de andre lokale unge mødre plejede at mødes for mange år siden, alle med deres enorme moderne barnevogne. Der er ingen unge mødre derinde i dag – det lader til at en eller anden café andetsteds må være det moderigtige sted nu til dags. Tider ændre sig, ingen tvivl om det.

Vi smutter ind hos Barrista-caféen og drikker en kop kaffe.

Vi ser os lidt om i byen. Mange butikker har store malede hare-statuer foran deres døre. Denne slags vane er moderigtig for tiden – mange små engelske byer vælger en eller anden dyr som byens ”symbol” – fænomenet  tiltrækker turister, det har jeg ikke nogen tvivl om. De er meget fotogene.



Vi ser os lidt om i byen. Mange butikker er nye,
siden vi sidst var i byen (for næsten 5 år siden)

Ed kommer tilbage fra Basingstoke og vi spiser alle 5 frokost.

15:00 Vi kører i to biler til skolen for at hente Rosalind og Isaac. Bagefter kører vi til en lokal havecenter. Ali og Ed vil gerne købe en masse nye planter for at lyse lidt op og skabe lidt interesse i deres have, som for tiden er ganske intetsigende og uden særpræg efter familiens 6-års fravær i Danmark.

Lois og Isaac står foran en Morgan veteranbil 
i havecentrets parkeringsplads

17:00 Vi kører alle 7 tilbage til Alison og Eds hus og spiser aftensmad. Bagefter viser vi dem vores fotos fra vores nylige ferie i Perth, Australien hos vores yngste datter Sarah og hendes unge familie.

21:00 Lois og jeg kører tilbage til vores hotel og kollapser i sengen efter 11 timers snik-snak. Det er lidt af et chok i sammenligning til vores sædvanlige dage, hvor vi som 2 gamle krager tilbringer for det meste stille og rolige dage alene i vores enorme hus, som vi købte i 1986, da vores 2 døtre, Alison var 10 år og Sarah var 8. Yikes – vi bliver gamle, ingen tvivl om det!!!!!

Men det har været så rart at kunne besøge dem nu, hvor de er tilbage i England, og vi ikke har brug for at gå ombord på et fly for at se dem. De er en dejlig familie.

Tirsdag den 10 juli 2018

09:00 Lois og jeg tjekker ud af vores hotel og kører tilbage til Cheltenham. Vi må tilbage for at passe på Minx, Alisons tidligere kat, som hun efterlod hos os, da familien i november 2012 flyttede til København. Vores naboer, Stephen og Frances, passede på Minx indtil i går aftes, men i formiddag flyver de til Tjekkiet for en uges ferie hos Frances’ gamle penneven.

12:00 Vi kommer hjem og spiser frokost. Bagefter går vi i seng og tager en gigantisk eftermiddagslur.

18:00 Vi spiser aftensmad og bruger resten af aftenen på at se lidt fjernsyn. En skræmmende dokumentarfilm (nr 3 i serien), der handler om Trump og den amerikanske presse, især New York Times, som præsidenten er uvenner med, for at sige mildt!


Et fascinerende 3. afsnit, der dækker blandt andet vold i Charlottesville og Muellers arbejde, som specielle undersøger, for at efterforske forbindelser mellem Trumps valgkampagne og Rusland.

Det er meget rart at se og høre anstændige og intellligente mennesker (avisens journalister) fortælle sandheden om Trump: det, at han er helt komfortabel med at lyve, opdigte historier, gøre ubegrundede beskyldninger, slynge skældsord ligesom en skoledreng mod sine politiske modstandere og mod pressen osv. Selvfølgelig ved vi dette godt nok allerede, men det er rart at høre det blive bekræftet af avisens journalister.

Mange af disse begivenheder er velkendte,  men på nogle måder det mest chokerende og skræmmende scene viser sig midt i programmet, da vi ser Trump holde tale til sine tilhængere i Phoenix , Arizona. Han revser journalisterne, der sidder i bunden af salen, og ophidser publikummet til at skælde dem ud og true dem. Resultatet er, at journalisterne forlader salen.





Journalisterne bliver truet af Trumps tilhængere og forlader salen

Trump er en uuddannet, ukultiveret mand, der ikke ved noget om historie, så han formentlig ikke ved, hvordan tidligere demokratiske samfund i 1920’erne og 1930’erne som for eksempel Tyskland, Italien, Japan, kom ud i en glidebane, og endte med at blive til diktaturer gennem lignende intimideringskampagner. Øv!

Ræk mig lige opkastningsposen, Alice !!!!

22:00 Vi går I seng – zzzzzzzzz!!!!!


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