Monday, 22 April 2019

Sunday, April 21 2019


09:15 Our elder daughter Alison and her family (Ed plus their 3 children, Josie (12), Rosalind (10) and Isaac (8)), together with Lois, walk into the village to attend the local Anglican church’s Easter service.

I have some alone time and can wind down for an hour or so. The experience of having Alison and her family in the house for a few days can be quite intense to put it mildly.

I recall that a local woman, Cynthia Applin hit the headlines  a few months ago after a recent visit by her 3 adult children (source: my go-to local news site, Onion News).

According to the news website, local mother Cynthia Applin was breathing heavily and leaning up against the wall for support, as beads of sweat formed on her forehead and she struggled to lower her heart rate Monday, as she came down from the high of having all three of her adult children under the same roof, local sources were reporting.

"Oh, my God, the three of them were right here, talking and sharing family meals together - it was so intense," said the quivering 55-year-old, staggering around after an attack of dizziness as she described the euphoria of seeing her 27- year-old son, 24-year-old daughter and college-age son sitting beside one another at the dining table.

"I went into ecstasy when they all arrived a few days ago, but when I realised that they were each sleeping in their childhood rooms right down the hall from me, it felt like I was flying straight up in the air and my heart was ready to explode - I could barely even handle it. God, what a fucking rush. "

At press time, sources reported that Applin had decided to chase another high by looking at some old pictures of her children in their Easter clothes.

Good grief, what madness! But when I remember about Cynthia's experience, I decide to measure my blood pressure again as soon as I can take a break. You can’t be too careful, I think.

My goodness, what a crazy world we live in !!!!

10:00 In the meantime, I start on a series of domestic tasks: I peel the potatoes for lunch, organise our recycling waste and put it in our recycling boxes. I take our compost material out of the house and dump it in one or other of our 4 giant compost containers at the bottom of the garden.

And most importantly - I go up the loft ladder and drag all our old board games and jigsaw puzzles down from the attic and put them on the table downstairs in the dining room, so Alison and the kids can look through them and decide if they want to take any of them home: this is part of mine and Lois's current downsize mini-project. 

But after going up and down the loft ladder several times, and up and down the stairs several times, I feel like I have done a massive workout at a gym – my god, I'm a little out of breath, to put it mildly. I am getting old, no doubt about that.

our garage later in the day - to the left, games and puzzles that
Alison is interested in, to the right the unwanted ones that
we can donate to charity or throw away - hurrah! 

10:30 Alison's family and Lois come home from the church. We have agreed with Sarah, our daughter in Perth, Australia, to talk to her and her family at 10:30, but I get a text message from her: the family is still on their way home after some outing or other, and will not be home till 1 pm (British time).

Francis, Sarah's husband, has meanwhile sent me a couple of emails  with photos of their 5-year-old twins, Lily and Jessie, taken earlier today. Lois and I had sent Sarah money to buy Easter chocolate eggs and chocolate rabbits for the twins, which Francis and Sarah hid in the garden so the twins could search for them: Francis told them that Lois and I had asked the Easter Bunny to leave them in the garden - how cute they are!



our twin grand-daughters earlier this morning in Perth, Australia

Flashback to last weekend: The Easter bunny had invited the twins and other children
to an Easter egg hunt, organised in Kings Park, Perth, by Sarah's workplace

Lois hurries into the kitchen to make lunch, with help from me from time to time.

13:00 We talk a little on whatsapp with Sarah and the twins in Perth, but only for 10 minutes or so. The twins are very tired after the family outing, which included a stop at a McDonalds on their way home - local Perth time is 8 o'clock in the evening.

Sarah says their return home was delayed because Francis happened to meet a builder and he took advantage of the opportunity to talk a little with him: the family plans to buy a piece of land near the coast - maybe Yanchep and surrounding area, and have a house built on it. Francis has already designed his ideal house on the computer, it seems.

13:15 The whatsapp call ends. We say good night to the twins and blow them a couple of kisses - hopefully we will be able to speak with Sarah again tomorrow.

We have lunch on the patio table: turkey, roast potatoes and various vegetables (green beans, carrots, broccoli), and Easter cake with cream or ice cream for dessert - yum yum!

we eat Easter lunch on the terrace

Josie tries out a new "hairstyle" with bangs

We see a little television, and later Alison starts collecting the family’s belongings together and packing them in the boot of their car, while Lois, Ed and the kids go for a short walk on the local football field.

We see a little television, an old edition of "The Chase" game show

During the walk, Ed speaks a little to Lois about his search for a new job. The family moved back to England last summer after Ed was made redundant  after 6 years (with a generous compensation package) by his company in Copenhagen. He currently has a temporary job at an Indian owned oil distribution company in Ellesmere Port.

Ed says the job market is starting to look a little more promising, and he currently has 3 chances for jobs, in London, in Canterbury (Kent), also in Sweden - yikes!

17:30 Alison, Ed and the kids have to leave: they drive back to their home in Haslemere, Surrey.

19:00 Lois and I have a light snack: muffins and a cup of tea, and we spend the rest of the evening watching some television. We are exhausted.


An interesting programme. A huge Viking burial site was recently found by archaeologists near the town of Repton in the county of Derbyshire, also a high-status double-grave close to the local church where two warriors lay side by side.

A DNA analysis has now proved that the double grave actually contained a man - probably a Viking king - and his son next to him. The father died after receiving several injuries in various body parts, including his penis, which would have been chopped in two.

Luckily, the people who buried him had thoughtfully substituted a wild boar's tusk between the man's legs, so that he would be able to enjoy the afterlife with some dead woman or other, which was a good idea. There were actually quite a few dead Viking women in the nearby burial site, so the king would definitely have been in with a good chance of “getting lucky” over in Valhalla.

There were in fact hundreds of dead Vikings are in the nearby burial ground, but for a few years there has been a bit of a mystery about it, after the skeletons were first dated in the 1990’s: the carbon 14 dating indicated that some of the warriors dated to the 9th century, when a massive Viking army spent the winter in the area. But other warriors dated to the 8th century, which was a little surprising to put it mildly.

But now scientists have discovered that skeletons of people who eat a lot of fish always date to an earlier period than other people - because the fish they’ve been eating have been absorbing older carbon 14 in the ocean, which corrupts the dating apparently.

So the scientists have  now come to the conclusion that all the warriors at the burial site died in the 9th century - probably in 873 or so, when a massive Viking army sailed down the River Trent to attack Repton, which at that time was the capital of the Anglo-Saxon kingom of Mercia. My god, what madness !!!!

It is also interesting that 20% of the skeletons in the funeral site were women, which fits with other recent archaeological excavations in Britain and Scandinavia, indicating that Viking armies normally included female warriors.

You goodness - what a crazy world we live in !!!!! [yellow card - once a post for that phrase is (more than) enough - Ed.]

22:00 We go to bed - zzzzzzzzzz !!!!

Danish translation

09:15 Vores ældste datter Alison og hendes familie (Ed og deres 3 børn, Josie (12), Rosalind (10) og Isaac (8), sammen med Lois går hen ind i landsbyen for at deltage i den lokale anglikanske kirkes påskegudstjeneste.

Jeg har lidt alenetid, og kan geare ned i en time, eller deromkring. Oplevelsen med at have Alison og hendes familie i huset i et par dage kan være ganske intens for at sige mildt.

En lokal kvinde, Cynthia Applin ramte overskifterne for nogle måneder siden  efter et nyligt besøg af sine 3 voksne børn (kilde: mit go-to lokale nyhedswebsted, Onion News).


Lokale mor Cynthia Applin åndede tungt og lænede sig mod væggen til støtte, som sveddråber dannede sig på panden, og hun kæmpede for at sænke hjertefrekvensen mandag, da hun trappede ned fra ruset af at have alle tre af sine voksne børn under samme tag, rapporterede kilder.

"Åh, min Gud, de tre af dem var lige her, snakkende og delende familiemåltider sammen - det var så intenst," sagde den dirrende  55-årige, vaklende efter et angreb af svimmelhed, da hun beskrev euforien over at se sin 27-årige søn, 24-årig datter og kollegium-alder søn sidde alle ved siden af hinanden ved spisebordet.

"Jeg gik i ekstasi, da de alle ankom for nogle dage siden, men da jeg indså, at de hver sov i deres barndomsværelser lige ned i gangen fra mig, føltes det som om at jeg fløj til vejrs og mit hjerte var klar til at eksplodere  - jeg kunne næppe selv klare det. Gud, sikke et fucking rush. "

På pressetid rapporterede kilder, at Applin havde besluttet at jagte et andet rus ved at se på nogle gamle billeder af hendes børn i deres påsketøj.

Du godeste, sikke et vanvid!  Men da jeg mindes om Cynthias oplevelse, beslutter jeg at måle mit blodtryk igen så snart jeg kan tage lidt pause. Det er umuligt at være for forsigtig, tænker jeg.

Du godeste, sikke en skør verden vi lever i !!!!

10:00 I mellemtiden går jeg i gang med en række huslige opgaver:  jeg skræller kartoflerne til frokosten, organiserer vores genbrugsaffald og putte det i vores beholdere. Jeg tager vores kompostmateriale ud af huset og putter det i en eller anden af vores 4 kæmpe-kompostbeholdere.

Og det vigtigste -  jeg går op ad loftstigen og slæber alle vores gamle brætspil og puslespil ned, og lægger dem på bordet nedenunder i spisestuen, så Alison og børnene kan kigge dem igennem og beslutter, om de vil tage nogle af dem med hjem: dette er en del af min og Lois’ nuværende downsize mini-projekt.  Efter at være gået op og ned loftstigen flere gang, og op og ned trappen flere gang, føler jeg som om jeg har klaret en massiv workout på et motionscenter – du godeste, jeg er lidt forpustet, for at sige mildt. Jeg bliver gammel, ingen tvivl om det.

vores garage senere på dagen: til venstre de brætspil og puslespil,
som Alison er interesseret i at få, til højre de uønskede,
som Lois og jeg kan donere til en eller anden velgørenhed, eller smide ud.

10:30 Alisons familie og Lois kommer hjem fra kirken. Vi har aftalt med Sarah, vores datter i Perth, Australien til at tale med hende og hendes familie kl 10:30, men jeg får en sms fra hende: familien er stadig på vej hjem efter et eller andet udflugt, og vil først være hjemme kl 13 (engelsk tid).

Francis, Sarahs mand, har sendt mig et par emails, med billeder af deres 5-årige tvillinger, Lily og Jessie, taget tidligere på dagen. Lois og jeg havde sendt Sarah penge til at købe påskechokoladeæg og chokoladekaniner til tvillingerne, som Francis og Sarah skjulte i haven, så tvillingerne kunne søge efter dem:  Francis fortalte dem, at Lois og jeg havde bedt Påskekaninen til at efterlade dem i haven – hvor er de dog søde!



Tidligere på dagen: vores tvillingebørnebørn i Perth, Australien

Tilbageblik til sidste weekend: Påskekaninen inviterer tvillingerne og andre børn
 til en påskeægjagt, organiseret i Kings Park, Perth, af Sarahs arbejdsplads

Lois skynder sig ind i køkkenet for at lave frokosten, med hjælp fra mig fra tid til anden. 

13:00 Vi taler lidt på whatsapp med Sarah og tvillingerne i Perth, men kun i 10 minutter eller deromkring. Tvillingerne er meget trætte efter familiens udflugt, herunder et smut i en McDonalds på vej hjem – lokal tid er 20:00 om aftenen. Sarah siger, at deres hjemkomst var forsinket, fordi Francis tilfældigvis havde mødt en bygmester, og benødt sig af muligheden for at snakke lidt med ham: familien planægger at købe et stykke jord i nærheden af kysten – måske Yanchep og omegn, og få et huset bygget på det. Francis har designet sit ideelle hus på computeren, lader det til.

13:15 Whatsapp-opkaldet slutter. Vi siger god nat til tvillingerne og blæser dem et par kys – forhåbentlig vil vi kunne tale igen med Sarah i morgen. 

Vi spiser frokost på terrassebordet: kalkun, stegte kartofler og forskelige grøntsager (grønne bønner, gulerødder, broccoli), og påskekage med fløde eller is til desserten – yum yum!

vi spiser påskefrokost på terrassen

Josie afprøver en ny ”frisure” med pandehår

Vi ser lidt fjernsyn, og senere går Alison i gang med at samle familiens ejendele og pakke dem ind i bagagerummet, mens Lois, Ed og børnene går en kort tur på den lokale fodboldbane.

Vi ser lidt fjernsyn, ”The Chase” gameshowet

I løbet af gåturen snakker Ed lidt med Lois om sin søgn efter et nyt job. Familien flyttede tilbage til England sidste sommer efter Ed blev afskediget efter 6 år (med en generøs kompensationspakke) af sit firma i København. Han har for tiden et midlertidigt job hos et indisk ejet oliedistributionsselskab i Ellesmere Port.

Ed siger at jobmarkedet begynder at se lidt mere lovende ud, og han for tiden har chancer for 3 jobs, i London, i Canterbury (Kent), også i Sverige – yikes!

17:30 Alison, Ed og børnene skal af sted: de kører hjem til deres hjem i Haslemere, Surrey.

19:00 Lois og jeg spiser en let snack: muffins og en kop te, og bruger resten af aftenen på at se lidt fjernsyn. Vi er udmattede.


Et interessant program.  Et kæmpe begravelsesplads fra vikingetiden blev fundet for nylig af arkæologer i nærheden af byen Repton i grevskabet Derbyshire, også en dobbelt grav tæt på den lokale kirke, hvor to kriger lå side om side.

En DNA-analyse har nu bevist at dobbeltgraven faktisk indeholder en eller anden vigtig mand - sandsynligvis en vikingekonge, og hans søn. Faderen døde efter at have fået flere skader i forskellige kropsdele, herunder sin penis, der ville være blevet hugget i to stykker. Heldigvis havde de mennesker, der begravede ham, lagt en vildsvins kæmpe stødtand mellem mandens ben, så han ville kunne hygge sig i efterlivet med en eller anden død kvinde, hvilket var rart.

Hundredvis af døde vikinger ligger i den nærliggende begravelsesplads, men der var lidt af et mysterium om det hele, da skeletterne først blev dateret i 1990’erne:  kulstof 14-dateringen angav at nogle af krigerne daterede til det 9. århundrede, da en massiv vikingehær tilbragte vinteren i området. Men andre krigere daterede til det 8. århundrede, hvilket var lidt overraskende for at sige mildt.

Nu har forskere opdaget, at skeletter af mennesker, der spiser en masse fisk, altid daterer til en tidligere periode, end andre mennesker – fordi fiskene, de spiser, har absorberet ældre kulstof 14, hvilket korrupterer dateringen. Forskerne er derfor kommet til den konklusion, at alle krigerne i begravelsespladsen døde i 9. århundrede – sandsynligvis i 873 eller deromkring, da en massiv vikingehær sejlede ned ad floden Trent for at angribe Repton, der dengang var hovedstaden at det angel-saksiste rig, Mercia. Du godeste, sikke et vanvid!!!!

Det er også interessant, at 20% af skeletterne i begravelsespladsen var kvinder, hvilket passer med andre nylige arkæologiske udgravelser i Storbritannien og Skandinavien, der beviser at vikinghære også inkluderede kvindelige krigere.

Du godeste – sikke en skør verden vi lever i !!!!!  [gult kort - en gang om posten er nok – red.]

22:00 Vi går i seng – zzzzzzzzzz!!!!


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