Saturday, 6 February 2016

Fredag 05/02/2016 kl 1630 til lørdag 06/02/2016 kl 1629

18:30 Vi er begge to godt trætte (Lois har i flere timer været i gang med at lave bunkevis af appelsinmarmelade, mens jeg har i to timer talt om det urgermaniske sprog – du godeste!), så vi beslutter at lave og spise endnu én af de tre færdigretter, vi forleden købte i CookShop – du godeste!

Derefter bruger vi aftenen på at se lidt fjernsyn. De viser Top of the Pops fra marts 1981, og derefter ”The Good Old Days”, fra 1976, et program der prøvede at genskabe stemningen af den victorianske og edwardianske ”music-hall” eller ”vaudeville” (dvs varietéteater).


I Top of the Pops fra marts 1981 får vi for første gang det indtryk af, at der er omsider virkeligt begyndt den stil musik, der karakterisede 1980’erne: elektronisk musik som et udtryk af fremmedgørelse, men også de ”nye romantiske” bevægelse – hurra! Den mest mindeværdige sang i showet er igen Kim Wildes ”Kids in America”. Hun er stadigvæk meget slank (senere på årtiet tog hun lidt på i vægt – uha!), hun ser vranten, sur og tvær ud i et moderigtigt måde;  derudover har hun sin ikoniske stribede jumper på – hurra!

Jeg vidste ikke, at denne sang, Kims første sang og første slager, var skrevet af sin far og sin bror. Kims far, Marty Wilde, var en berømte popsanger i 1950’erne. Min afdøde søster, Kathy, ret varm på ham – det husker jeg klart!
  

Kim ser vranten, sur og tvær ud i et moderigtigt måde;  derudover har hun sin ikoniske stribede jumper på – hurra!
  

Kims far i 1950’erne. Min søster var ret varm på ham – det husker jeg klart !!!!

”The Good Old Days” er meget underholdende, som altid. Showets stjerne i aften er Ronnie Corbett, den ”diminutive” skotske komiker, der i 1976 var 46 år gammel.



21:00 Vores yngste datter, Sarah, efterlod bunkevis af babytøj og legetøj hos os for et par måneder siden, da hun flyttede til Australien sammen med Francis, hendes mand, og deres 2,5-årige tvillinger, Lily og Jessica. Lois og jeg vidste ikke til at begynder med, hvad vi skulle gøre med al dette babytøj osv. 


en bunke babytøj, som vi ikke kan blive fri for – du godeste!

Lois’s ven, James, tilbød for nylig at tage denne bunke babytøj med til en velgørende organisation, der indgår i det plejehjem i Birmingham, hvor hans far bor. Han lovede at køre forbi og hente dem for en uge siden, men han dukkede ikke op. I ønsdags ringede han os  og undskyldte: han sagde, at han havde ”glemt” at komme, og han lovede at køre forbi fredag aften (i dag) for at hente babytøjet.

Ha ha ha! Uuuh, løfter, løfter! Klokken er 21 og han er ikke dukket op. Du godeste -  har han glemt igen??? Vi kan ikke stole på ham – det er både sikkert og vist!!!

22:00 James er ikke dukket op. Vi går i seng – zzzzz!!!!!

03:15 Jeg står tidligt op og kigger lidt på internettet. Jeg kan høre, at det udenfor regner kraftigt og blæser kraftigt – du godeste! Sikke et møgvejr!

09:00 James ringer til os. Han siger, han om 10 minutter kører forbi os for at hente babytøjet. Du godeste! Men jeg er ikke ret overrasket. Jeg vidste, at han ikke ville kontakte os til det sidste øjeblik – uha! Men vi er meget glade for, at han tager babytøjet væk.

11:00 Vores venner Edward og Claire har inviteret os til middag. Vi har været i 35 år venner med hinanden. De har to døtre, Angela og Linda, der er på samme alder som vores døtre, Alison og Sarah. De 4 piger var bedste venner inden vi flyttede til USA i 1982, og i et par år efter vi i 1985 kom tilbage til England.

Vi kører over til Edward og Claires hus, og spiser frokost sammen med dem. Vi har mange interessante samtaler. Edward har mange stærke meninger om nutidens samfund og om mange historiske spørgsmål – du godeste! Det er mærkeligt, at Lois og jeg stiller en masse spørgsmål om deres liv, og om deres 2 døtre, Angela og Linda, men Edward og Claire er overhovedet ikke nysgerrig efter at vide noget om vores liv og om Alison og Sarah, selvom de 4 piger i mange år var bedste venner.

Der er desværre ikke en masse gode nyheder om Angela. Hun er 40 år gammel. Hun bor i London med sin mand og sin 8-årige datter, og hun arbejder som embedsmand for miljøministeriet, men desværre har hun i 7 år skullet kæmpe mod brystkræft. Stakkels Angela. Linda, Angelas lillesøster bor og arbejder i Walsall. Hun er 38 år gammel og stadig ugift. Hun underviser på sygeplejerskeuddanelse.

De 4 venner i 1980 i vores baghave i Cleevemountvej: fra venstre til højre, Alison, Angela, Linda og Sarah


 Tilbageblik til 1986. Alison fejrer sin 11. fødselsdag i baghaven af vores nuværende hus. Angela, den pige med de dejlige lange lyse krøller, sidder på Alisons højre hånd.

15:00 Vi kører hjem og jeg går i seng. Jeg tager mig en lang lur – zzzzz !!!!!

16:30 Jeg står op og vi slapper af med en kop te på sofaen....

English translation
Friday, 02/05/2016 at 1630 till Saturday, 02.06.2016 at 1629

18:30 We're both very tired (Lois has for several hours been in the process of making piles of orange marmalade, while I have for two hours been talking about the Proto-Germanic language - my goodness!), So we decide to make and eat one more of the three prepared meals, we bought the other day in CookShop - my goodness!

Then we spend the evening watching TV. They show Top of the Pops from March 1981 and then "The Good Old Days", from 1976, a program that tried to recreate the atmosphere of the Victorian and Edwardian "music-hall" or "vaudeville" (ie music halls).


In Top of the Pops from March 1981 we get for the first time the impression that there has finally really started the style of music that characterized the 1980s: electronic music as an expression of alienation, but also the "new romantic" movement - hooray! The most memorable song of the show is again Kim Wilde's "Kids in America". She is still very slim (later in the decade she put a little weight on - oh dear!), She looks morose, sour and cross out in a fashionable way; In addition, she has her iconic striped jumper on - hurray!

I did not know that this song, Kim's first song and first hit, was written by her father and her brother. Kim's father, Marty Wilde, was a famous pop singer in the 1950s. My late sister, Kathy, was quite hot for him - I remember that very clearly!

Kim looks morose, sour and cross out in a fashionable way; In addition, she has her iconic striped jumper on - hurray!
        Kim's father in the 1950s. My sister was quite hot for him - I remember it very clearly !!!!

"The Good Old Days" is very entertaining as always. The show's star of the evening is Ronnie Corbett, the "diminutive" Scottish comedian who in 1976 was 46 years old.


21:00 Our youngest daughter, Sarah, left behind piles of baby clothes and toys with us a couple of months ago, when she moved to Australia with Francis, her husband, and their two and a half year old twins, Lily and Jessica. Lois and I did not know to begin with, what to do with all these baby clothes etc.

a pile of baby clothes, we cannot get rid of - my goodness!

Lois's friend, James, offered recently to take this pile of baby clothes to a charity that is part of the nursing home in Birmingham where his father lives. He promised to drive by and pick them up a week ago, but he did not show up. On Wednesday he called us and apologized: he said he had "forgotten" to come, and he promised to drive by on Friday night (today) to pick up the baby clothes.

Ha ha ha! Uuuh, promises, promises! The time is 9pm and he has not shown up. My goodness - has he forgotten again ??? We cannot trust him - it is both certain and sure !!!

22:00 James has not shown up. We go to bed - zzzzz !!!!!

3:15 I get up early and take a look on the internet. I can hear that outside it is raining heavily and blowing hard - my goodness! What awful weather!

09:00 James calls us. He says he will drive by in about 10 minutes and pick up the baby clothes. My Goodness! But I'm not very surprised. I knew he would not contact us until the last moment - oh dear! But we are very happy that he's taking the baby clothes away.

11:00 Our friends Edward and Claire have invited us to lunch. We have been friends with each other for 35 years. They have two daughters, Angela and Linda, who are the same age as our daughters, Alison and Sarah. The four girls were best friends before we moved to the US in 1982, and for a few years after we came back to England in 1985.

We drive over to Edward and Claire's house, and have lunch with them. We have many interesting conversations. Edward has many strong opinions about contemporary society and the many historical questions - my goodness! It is strange that Lois and I ask a lot of questions about their lives and about their two daughters, Angela and Linda, but Edward and Claire are not at all curious to know anything about our lives and about Alison and Sarah, even though the 4 girls were best friends for many years.

Unfortunately there is not a lot of good news about Angela. She is 40 years old. She lives in London with her husband and her 8-year-old daughter, and she works as a civil servant for the Ministry of Environment, but unfortunately she has had to fight against breast cancer for 7 years. Poor Angela. Linda, Angela's sister lives and works in Walsall. She is 38 years old and still unmarried. She teaches nurse training.

 The four friends in 1980 in our backyard in Cleevemountvej: from left to right, Alison, Angela, Linda and Sarah

Flashback to 1986. Alison is celebrating her 11th birthday in the backyard of our current house. Angela, the girl with the beautiful long blond curls, is sitting at Alison's right hand.
  
15:00 We drive home and going to bed. I take a long nap - zzzzz !!!!!

16:30 I get up and we relax with a cup of tea on the couch ....


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